Appearance/Hygiene How is this related to Social Skills?
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Appearance/HygieneHow is this related to Social Skills?
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Video
• Why is good grooming important for healthy friendships and romantic relationships?
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Appearance is important for…
• Getting a Job
• http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyj1dvSJUPY (0-0.54)
• Getting a Date
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Why do our friends or potential friends care how we look/smell?
• Why did Chris tell Mike that he smelled?- He was trying to help his friend
• How can you tell what Chris was thinking?- His gestures, facial expression, etc.
• How should Mike have handled Chris telling him that he smelled?- should have listened to his friend and taken his advice
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What are things you do to take care of our body and look nice?
• What can you do to be attractive to girls/boys?
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Going on a Date
• Complete Survey
• What does it mean to “go on a date”?
• Why might people want to go on a date?
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Dating
• What social skills might be most important when on a date? Eye contact Body Language Facial Expressions
Starting a conversation Keeping the conversation going Ending the conversation Bubbling unexpected
comments/thoughts
Appearance Being fun
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Places you may go on a date (at your age)
• Going to the movies
• Getting food together
• Hanging out at your house
• Many other places too….
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Things not to do on a date
• Would make others have “weird thoughts”/ feel uncomfortable/ not want to be around you?
• Let’s watch part 1 of our video and see what things Mike does that are unexpected
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Mike on a date- Attempt #1
• Things Mike did that were “unexpected”
What Mike DID How she FELT CONSEQUENCES How he FEELS at end
Hug and kiss her Annoyed Irritated
Pushed him/ hit him
HeartbrokenConfused
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Mike on a date- Attempt #2
• What did Mike do this time that worked better?
• What social skills did he use well?
What Mike DID
How she FELT CONSEQUENCES How he FELT at end
Acted expected, calm
HappyCalmInterested
They might hang out more Really happy
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What is Body Language? • Sending messages with your body, gestures,
facial expressions
• What is body language important?- Gives you clues about how the other person is
feeling
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Body Language in Video How is SASHA feeling? How is MIKE feeling?
Bad Day- Creeped out and afraid Bad Day- interested but aggressive
Good Day- interested in Mike Good Day- interested but calm
How does Mike express his feelings differently?•Bad Day- rude, blunt, insensitive•Good day- being thoughtful, polite and spending time learning about her
What is the difference between Mike’s body language in BAD DAY and GOOD DAY?•Bad Day- tries to hug Sasha, which is unexpected•Good Day- acts in familiar or expected way and is considerate of Sasha
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Different Perspectives on Dating
• When to date?
• How often to date?
• Who should date?
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Watch Coffee House again..
• See how Mike starts the conversation in BAD day and GOOD day videos
• Bad Day- Says Hi babe and tries to hug Sasha• Good Day- Talks about the assignment and asks about her
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Look for Common Information/ Interests
• Common Info: information that everyone in the same environment knows; makes it easier to start a conversation
- examples: days off from school, a test taken, what they think of a teacher
• What information is common to Mike and Sasha?
- Their assignment and class
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Common Interests
• Things that both people are interested in• When you start a conversation with someone,
you usually don’t know their interests are- takes time to find out
• What common interests did Mike and Sasha share?
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Practice conversations
• Use common information or a common interest to start the conversation