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    Anger Management

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    What is Anger ?

    Anger is a normal human emotion that, when handledappropriately and expressed assertively, can provide an

    individual with a positive force to solve problems and

    make decisions concerning life situations.

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    Anger need not be a negative expression. Anger becomes a problem when it is not

    expressed and when it is expressed aggressively.

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    Types of Anger

    Behavioral Anger Passive Anger

    Verbal Anger

    Constructive Anger Self-inflicted Anger

    Volatile Anger

    Chronic Anger Judgmental Anger

    Overwhelmed Anger

    Retaliatory Anger Paranoid Anger

    Deliberate Anger

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    Harmful Anger

    Although there are 12 types of anger, and noanger should go uncontrolled for too long...

    There are 4 anger types that can becomeespecially harmful.

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    Self-Inflicted Anger

    Form of anger that is expressed when someone ispunishing themselves for something they may havedone wrong.

    Over-eating, starving themselves,

    and inflicting wounds by cutting

    themselves.

    It can be very dangerous if it goes on for too long.

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    Behavioral Anger This type of anger consists of aggressive and cruel

    actions.

    It leans mostly on the physical side. It usually startsas an attack towards someone or something that

    caused the anger in the first place.

    Those who normally get labeled as trouble makers,start fights, and are defiant fall under this umbrella....

    and sometimes, rightfully so.

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    Judgmental Anger

    It is closely related to verbal anger.

    This type of anger makes everyone involved feeluneasy or causes self esteem issues for the victims.

    A person exhibiting this form of anger puts otherpeople down and makes other people feel worthlessas a person.

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    Volatile Anger

    Unpredictable...

    This type of anger comes and goes.

    If a person suppresses something long enough,

    eventually it will be expressed in ugly ways. Sometimes itcan be expressed verbally, and physically at other times.

    Volatile anger is like a volcano before it erupts...

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    The difference betweenAnger and Aggression

    Anger is an emotion. It is ok to be angry.

    Aggression is acting out inappropriately and is

    not ok. Learn to check your aggression andexpress your anger appropriately.

    Anger has positive andnegative functions

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    Aggression

    Is one way that individuals express anger

    Is a behavior that is intended to threaten or injurethe victims security or self-esteem

    Can cause damage with words, fists, or weapons,but it is virtually always designed to punish.

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    Environmental FactorsSeveral environmental factors have been associatedwith an increase in aggressive behavior.

    They include

    Physical crowding of people Discomfort associated with a moderate increase in

    environmental temperature

    Use of alcohol and some other drugs. Availability of firearms

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    Characteristics of Anger

    Anger can be identified by a cluster or characteristicsthat include

    Frowning

    Clenched fists

    Low-pitched words forced through clenched teeth

    Yelling and shouting

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    Characteristics of Anger

    Intense or no eye contact Easily offended

    Defensive

    Passive-aggressive Emotional over control and flushed face

    Intense discomfort

    Tension

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    Identify..Feelings

    A range of feelingsincluding anger: Embarrassment

    Excitement

    Disappointment

    Jealousy

    Fear

    Helpless Sadness

    Left-out

    Identify..Feelings

    A range of feelingsincluding anger:

    Identify..Feelings

    A range of feelingsincluding anger:

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    Anger cuesAnger cues are changes in the body that are signs that a person is angry.

    When a person is angry, the anger response begins. The anger responsecauses the following changes to occur in the body:

    Increased musclestrength

    Adrenaline increases

    Decreased sensitivity topain

    Increased alertness Tensed eyebrows

    Pursed lips

    Reddening of the face

    Rapid breathing

    Increase in heart rate Rise in blood pressure

    Increased sweatingfrom the sweat glands

    in the face Sweaty palms

    Dryness of the mouth

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    Skills needed in dealing with your anger:

    1. Identify a range of feelings including anger

    2. Identify aggressive acts by self and others

    3. Identify the potential consequences to self and other from theseaggressive acts

    4. Identify self-destructive behavior

    5. Identify thoughts prior to aggressive acts

    6. Identify internal cues to feelings of anger

    7. Develop coping mechanisms for dealing with anger

    8. Express anger without loss of control

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    Ways to Keep Cool:

    1. Get exercise every day.

    2. Eat right.3. Get enough sleep.

    4. Learn to relax.

    5. Know your feelings.

    6. Write about those feelings

    7. Find a quiet place.

    8. Take a time out.

    9. Find fun distractions.10. Make good decisions about what you see and hear.

    11. Choose friends who make you feel good.

    12. Learn to forgive and forget.