And hath made of service unto you whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth;
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Transcript of And hath made of service unto you whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth;
And hath made of service unto you whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth; it is all from Him. Lo! herein verily are portents for people who reflect. (45:13. Al-Quran)
Psychological Philosophyof
Evolving Human ExcellenceDr. Javed Iqbal
Realization & Channelization
The Role of IQ, EQ &CQIn
The Career Making Dr. Javed Iqbal
Sequence of Presentation
Psychological Philosophy of evolving Human Excellence
Conceptual and Operational meaning of IQ, EQ &CQ
Pragmatism /Struggle for survival(people feel they are wise then Allah)
( tactics/diplomacy)حکمت احتیاط(cautious )مصلحت(vested interest )
Ethical culture developed
( truthfulness) سچای گی (seriousness /commitment) سنجید (Guardianship/sense of responsibility)امانت درست کا ( Faith / belief /ideology, ideational)عقیدہ ( Hit and hurt the criminals/No sympathy)عدل If you have a top class hardware but software is
corrupt. surely out put will be not praiseworthy. Result will be garbage in and garbage out
Knowledge with custody Knowledge without
custody
Knowledge Honesty
Planning
Efficiency
Productivity
Judicious use of resources
Composition of Human Beings
Human being Body States Nafs
(Ammara,Luwamia &Muthmina
Soul
1-Fire (proud)2-Air(Fame)3-Mud(Miser)4-Water (Jealousy)
Highest stage of Nafs
Lowest stage of Nafs
STATES OF NAFS
Aozubillah
Types of Kalub
Kalub-e- shaheed
nafs is in thekhabees state
nafs is at the state of Laeen
nafs is in the Rajeem state
nafs is in the Luwama state
nafs is in the Motamina state
Personality Physical (Visible form) Appearance Physique Dress Smartness CleanlinessMental Mental Alertness IQ CreativitySocial Group interaction Conflict resolution Organizing ability Interpersonal relationshipEthical Telling truth Honour the promises Fairness and justice Respect the human being
Man and Mathematical Relationship
(100+100)0
200 x 0=0
(Knowledge x Skill) Attitude(50+50) 50
100 x50=5000
Body Sign Mind Quantity
3 +(Add) 5 8 :zero
3 X(Multiply) 5 15
3 power 5 243: Hero
Psychological problems of new service entrants Self- centeredness Possessiveness( power needs, affiliation,
achievement ) Lack of assertiveness Impatience Confusion Rashness Distortion in self perception and ideal self Sexual disorder Lack of emotional labor Lack of Interpersonal skills
IQ
Intelligence behaviour must know what, why (what is doing &why he is doing this
Intelligence behaviour must meaningful and purposeful.
Intelligence behaviour must rational . intelligence must cultural values
IQ (Intelligence Quotient ) Comprehension Reasoning ability Judgment Assessment of IQ:
1. Note sheet/ corresponding2. Response (Logic with reference ) & paraphrase (CAR:
creative, accurate and result oriented ) .Focus approach
3. Decision (Mostly decision merit base, not obliged others )
(Emotional Intelligence )Daniel Goldman The term encompasses the following five characteristics and
abilities: Self awareness-knowing your emotions, recognizing feelings
as they occur and discriminating between them Mood Management-handling feelings so they’re relevant to
the current situation and you react appropriately. Self motivation-gather up” your feelings and directing
yourself towards a goal, despite self doubt, inertia and impulsiveness.
Empathy- recognizing feelings in others and tuning into their verbal and nonverbal cues; putting yourself in their shoes
Managing relationships-handling interpersonal interaction, conflict resolution, and negotiations.
EQ (Emotional Quotient ) General intelligence is Gene Link and Social
Intelligence is Acquired Identifying emotions of self and others,Self regulation,
self organization ,self awareness, social skill, coping stress
Self control, self managing emotions of self and others expression of emotion, Tolerance, Flexibility and
Emotional depth (unconditional love)
Assessment of Emotional Intelligence
Respect Listening Social relationship Violent use of rule and regulation Hot buttons
Example : Hundred Nail in the wall put nail in the wall, on every episode of angry. On self control take it out nail from the wall
Causes
When a human being becomes detached from religion it makes him worthless.
Greed and material gain becomes all-important goal of one’s life in the world.
Ignorance and deviation from God Weak belief system Hypocrisy Hub-e-ja Hub-e-mal Riyya
Spiritual diseases
False pride ,Arrogance (Takabbur) Greed (Hirs) Jealousy (Hasad) Lust (Shahwah) Backbiting (Gheebah) Stinginess (Bokhl) Malice (Keena) Anger Hippocracy Riyya
Prophet Muhammad says:
Your greatest enemy is your (evil) self that resides within you.
"He is a real king who can have full control over his self"
Relationship of Psyche and Soma
Psyche mind
Body (Soma)Gas, Palpitation/tremors, aches/Pains, Loss of weight etc, Burden on Head/ Heart
Overt Behavior Overt Behavior Aggressive/Hostile, Aggressive/Hostile, Withdrawn neglectful Withdrawn neglectful
Emotions Emotions Irritable/ Irritable/ Anxious/Depress Anxious/Depress
Feelings Feelings Negative Feeling about Negative Feeling about self, Negative self self, Negative self
image, ideas of image, ideas of worthlessness worthlessness
Thoughts Thoughts Conviction of suffering Conviction of suffering from, a dreadful, from, a dreadful,
disease (heart) fully disease (heart) fully convinced that he is convinced that he is being persecuted being persecuted
Perception Perception Hearing Voices, seeing Hearing Voices, seeing things things
SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS AND EXPECTED
PSYCOLOGICAL PROBLEMS HASAD:(Jealousy)
Hasad means to be unsatisfied by the distribution of Allah. Those who have the attribute of jealousy will always remain uncomfortable on the inside and will never be happy by others achievements.
Rasulullah (saws) said: “Do not be jealous among yourselves
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders or Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder and Paranoid Personality Disorder
BUGHAZ( MALICE ): People who fall a prey to bughaz
wants other people to suffer. Confrontation may be religious and worldly matter.Kulb such people is
not purified . People with the attribute of keena tend to keep the grudges. They forgive the other verbally but are always looking for ways to get
back at the person who caused them pain
Such people are never internally satisfied as they burn in the fire of
jealousy
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Depression Borderline Personality Disorder Paranoid Personality Disorder
ANAD They know truth
but not accept truth .Such people who fall a prey to
anad lose their ability to forgive and are always
trying to hurt their enemy.
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, Histrionic Personality
Disorder, Borderline Personality
Disorder Paranoid Personality
Disorder
GAROOR/ Takabbur (False pride, Arrogance)
Garoor is like an illusion. The
people who have the attribute of
garoor they believe that their achievement is of their own by
no help of Allah.
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, Histrionic Personality
Disorder, Borderline Personality
Disorder
FAKHAR People do accept
that whatever they have is given by
Allah but they feel that their
achievement is on their own efforts and not by any
involvement of the supernatural
power.
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, Histrionic Personality
Disorder, Borderline Personality
Disorder Paranoid Personality
Disorder
TOHMAT
To falsely accuse someone of any bad act without knowing the truth
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, Histrionic Personality
Disorder, Borderline Personality
Disorder Paranoid Personality
Disorder
TELLING LIES
To know about the real facts but hiding them
Lust (Shahwah)
Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders or Depression, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Boderline Personality Disorder andParanoid Personality Disorder
Components of Treatment Psycho education: nature, cause and maintenance of
the disorder. Cognitive restructuring/acceptance model Emotional distress management Exposure Problem solving Assertion training Activity scheduling Goal setting
Psychological Attributes (Who is a normal officer) Innovative& Creative ( lock out instead of lock on).
Spontaneous Response(practical ability &insight ) Constructively rebellious (never use harsh words
, nor short temper and some times do not exercise the rules ®ulations religiously).
Does not use fashionable words in expressing thoughts(critical, solution oriented with sound strategy).
Has ability of emotional labor (high interpersonal skills).
Non status conscious (he knows that he has power and uses it only when needed. (to maintain discipline )self realization –unnecessary exercise of power, ).
Domain of Human beingMental, Emotional, Social & Physical
Psychological Philosophy of Excellence
Baby Doll Barbie Doll:(Oxford Dictionary: Noun;
Australia/New Zealand ; An attractive but characterless or
unintelligent young women) (Gentle Lady: Knowledge + Values)
Panadol:(Narcissist (self love , this is my right, Psychosomatic (pretend
they are ill) Projectionists, self- angritize ( I can do every things,I am the best .
IQ
IQ
Cognitive Domain:thought processes and intellectual abilities including attention, memory, problem solving, imagination, creativity, academic and everyday knowledge, metacognition, and language.
Domains of Development
Development is described in three domains, but growth
in one domain influences the other domains. Physical Domain:
body size, body proportions, appearance, brain development, motor development, perception capacities, physical health.
Cognitive Domain: thought processes and intellectual abilities including attention,
memory, problem solving, imagination, creativity, academic and everyday knowledge, metacognition, and language.
Social/Emotional Domain: self-knowledge (self-esteem, metacognition, sexual identity,
ethnic identity), moral reasoning, understanding and expression of emotions, self-regulation, temperament, understanding others, interpersonal skills, and friendships.
Mental Domain
Judgmental ability, comprehension &reasoning Well adjusted Accommodative Optimistic thoughts Mental maturity Intellectual rational For decades, a lot of emphasis has been put on certain aspects of intelligence such as
logical reasoning, math skills, spatial skills, understanding analogies, verbal skills etc.
Definitions of Intelligence
Intelligence is “adjustment or adaptation of the individual to his total environment,” “the ability to learn,” “and the ability to carry on abstract thinking” (Freeman, 1955).
The ability “to resolve genuine problems or difficulties as they are encountered” (Gardner, 1983).
“Mental activities involved in purposive adaptation to, shaping of , and selection of real-world environments relevant to one’s life” (Sternberg, 1986)
Different Models of Intelligence
T. R. Taylor (1994) identified three independent research traditions that have been employed to study the nature of human intelligence.
1. The psychometric approach
2. Information Processing approach
3. Cognitive approach
Robert Sternberg - Triarchic Theory of Intelligence
While he agreed with Gardner that intelligence is much broader than a single, general ability, he instead suggested some of Gardner's intelligences are better viewed as individual talents. Sternberg proposed what he refers to as 'successful intelligence,' which is comprised of three different factors:
Analytical intelligence: This component refers to problem-solving abilities.
Creative intelligence: This aspect of intelligence involves the ability to deal with new
situations using past experiences and current skills. Practical intelligence:
This element refers to the ability to adapt to a changing environment.
Emotional intelligence means the ability to use your emotions in a positive and constructive way in relationship with others or
“ Knowing how you and others feel and what to do about It.”
EQ Ikhlaq (Self Actualization) (Roger) 1-Tahamul (tolerance, forbearance,
patience,endurance) 2-Husn-e- takhatib (politeness in
manners ,civility and affability) 3-Khair Khawahi (well-wishing,
solicitude) low EQ level ( emotional instability ,
inferiority feelings, depressiveness, anxiety, obsessiveness, dependence , hypochondrias and guilt.)
Over/under expression of emotions Emotions Affection, Anger, Annoyance, Angst,
Apathy, Anxiety, Awe, Boredom, Compassion, Contempt, curiosity, depression, despair, disappointment, disgust, ecstasy, Empathy, Envy, Embarrassment, Euphoria, Fear, Frustration, Gratitude, Grief, Guilt, Happiness, Hatred, Hope, Horror, Hostility, Hysteria, jealousy, Loathing, Love, Lust, Misery, Pity, Pride, Range, Regret, Remorse, Sadness,suffering, surprise, wonder, worry
Emotional Intelligence Emotional stability Intrapersonal adjustment Interpersonal adjustment Mood change is temporary pneumonia Emotion continuous emotional disturbance ,
personality trait Upper class grandiosity , supersity Middle infority , low self esteem , depression
Emotional domain
Love, joy, anger, aggression Over/ under presentation of emotions Internal form of feeling--- behavior Outburst of emotion Situational reaction / not responde Many experts now feel that EIQ is a better predictor of
success than traditional IQ tests. See how you stack up with this test.
Social domain
Interpersonal relationship We are not expressive , use sign language (I love
you) Emotional imbalance Interaction balance
Educational system= schizophrenic and psychopath
Lack of assertiveness in culture Lack of objectivity in education Memorization base examination system Children are not independent Basic needs are not fulfill Adaption of individual / profession as teacher is not
by choice but by chance Curriculum moral and rational
CQ
CQ(Common Quotient) A set of principles of good
conduct Telling truth Honour the promises Fairness and justice Respect the human being
The journey of life is travelled only once!so, make TAUBA for past, SHUKAR for present &DUA for the future Because DUA is the only element that changes TAQDEER everything is Pre-Written .!But , with Prayers it can be Re written .!so live the best and leave the rest to Allah
Wives of king Edward & ShahJahan bothdied of Polycystic Syndrome. Both kings immensely loved their wives but both had a different way of expressing it. Shahjahan spent billions to make Taj Mahal in memory of his beloved wife.King Edward built the University for research proclaiming that none else should die of disease which had snatched his beloved wife .such differences of thinking determine that causes of that rise or fall of nations
Meta Cognition
Meta Cognition (Those has high EQ they will have high ability of introspection
E Q low
Family social set up Neglect, authority Lack of confidence Revenged aggression
Capitalism
Socialism
RuhIslamic Values
Bloom taxonomy
Cognitive domain Affective domain Psychomotor domain
Creation (Higher order thinking) Cognition has effect on our emotion , EQ formation
All people has different skills running waking talking, but champion develop his skills , the become champion
Evaluation
Syntheses
Analysis
Application (lower order thinking )
Understanding
Remembering