An Australian example of therapeutic post-separation family mediation
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An Australian example of therapeutic post-separation family mediation
International Commission on Couple and Family Relationships 2014
The Parental Regard model:
Bill Hewlett Clinical Services Specialist, Post-Separation PracticeRelationships Australia NSW
Amelia Wheeler Research Officer, Relationships Australia NSWPhD Candidate, University of New South Wales
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About Us
At Relationships Australia we assist parents and care givers in the formation of a parental alliance so their children can thrive.
Relationships Australia offers counselling, mediation, dispute resolution, relationship education, early intervention services, community support, employee assistance programs and professional training from more than 150 centres nationally.
Our education and training division, the Australian Institute for Relationship Studies (AIRS), is recognised as a centre of teaching excellence and is supported by our research and clinical practice expertise.
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Context
Legislation
•No fault divorce included in the Family Law Act (1975)
•Major amendments to the Act in 2006 (‘Shared Care’ Amendments)
•Compulsory to attend mediation prior to Family Court
•Judges directed to consider ‘substantial and significant time’ with each parent
•Amendments represented a significant shift in the way separation and divorce was managed by the Government
•Transfer from the Family Court to the Human Services sector resulted in the establishment of Family Relationship Centres across Australia. Relationships Australia NSW manages six centres.
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Policy narratives
• United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (1989) – a significant influence on policy and organisational ideology in Australia
• ‘Best interests’ of the child – a legal term used in Australian legislation, however the definition is subjective. Child Inclusive process utilised in the Family Relationship Centres
• Evaluation research with separated families shows that the family form is not so important, but ongoing conflictbetween parents affects child wellbeing
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Family Relationship Centre Standard Process
Standard ProcessParent Contact –parent A contacts the Centre
Family Advisor – parent A sees Family Advisor for 1.5hr sessionFamily Advisor – Family Advisor invites parent B to an individual 1.5hr session (optional)
A Certificate enabling a Parent to go to Family Court can be issued at any time by the Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner
Educational groupPre-mediationJoint session/s
Additional sessionsChildren’s sessionFeedbackFurther joint sessions
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Clients
Client profile
•Children and wellbeing
Around 25% of children whose parents separate will experience mental health issues (compared with 12% from families that never separate) Sawyer et al, 2000; Kelly & Emery, 2003; McIntosh, Wells & Long, 2007
•Domestic violence and high conflict between parents
72% of fathers and 75% of mothers surveyed experiencing domestic violence accessed the Family Law system in 2011. DeMaio et al, 2012
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Theoretical Considerations
Attachment Theory
‘What we get exclusively from the family is love, and the capacity to form intimate attachments... Emotional security does not lead inexorably to good character or good citizenship, but insecurity interferes with the formation of every social connection… It increases the chance that we will react to others with avoidance, fear, anger and hostility.’ Rosenblum, 1995
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Amendments to the Family Law Act (2006)
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Signalled a shift towards supporting separated parents through the use of dispute resolution and conflict management, and away from court.
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Family Relationship Centres
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Managed by non-government organisations, these centres are based
in the community and include case management, parenting seminars, referrals to counselling and group
programs, and the provision of no-cost family dispute resolution.
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Towards Cooperation away from litigation
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•Many of the disputes over children following separation are driven primarily by relationship problems, rather than legal ones (Kaspiew, et al., 2009).
•A major motivation for the reform to the family law system was the problem of the disappearance of fathers from their children’s lives after separation and divorce (Parkinson, 2006).
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Best Interests of the Child
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Research findings support the idea that the quality of
relationships between parents, as well as the relationship
between parents and children, matters for children's wellbeing (e.g. Amato & Gilbreth 1999).
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A child has a relationship with the parent’s relationship. www.storyofneo.com.au
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Attachment Theory
Impact of the FRCs
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•In 2009, a study which reviewed the efficacy and impact of FRCs in Australia, found that approximately 40% of parents who used FDR services reached agreement and did not proceed to court. •There is evidence of fewer post-separation disputes being resolved via the use of legal services, and more disputes being resolved via the use of family relationship services.
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Previously the primary focus was on a parenting agreement. Now, we focus on a parental alliance.
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A shift in how a ‘good outcome’ is defined
Neurobiology
Our focus as children, on our short term survival, has superseded attention to all long term maintenance. This is akin to burning the furniture to survive a freezing winter. Louis Cozolino
It is important to understand that the brain altered in destructive ways by neglect and trauma can also be altered in reparative, healing ways. Bruce Perry
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The Social brain, given the opportunity, is always happy to help resolve a distressing relational situation, willingly providing data for insight and reflection.
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Cortico-Hippocampal help
Unfortunately evolution has not seen fit to invest much neural circuitry into self-awareness. Louis Cozolino
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Evolutionary theory
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Facilitating the creation of neural pathways
Not enough stress Too much stress
Ideal learning
environment
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Fast and slow circuits
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Key structures of the brain impacted by trauma
‘J’ Curve
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The ‘J Curve’ Model
Dumb and curious form of enquiry to elicit information of intent, impact and effect on others.
A Attunement
E Engagement and Empathy
I Intent and Impact
O What do others see?
U What else could you do?
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Contact us
Relationships Australia NSWwww.nsw.relationships.com.au
Australian Institute of Relationship Studies (AIRS) Training and Research Division
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The Story of Neowww.storyofneo.com.au
Bill [email protected]
Amelia [email protected]
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