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Let The Pavilion at Harpeth Host Your Special Day.The Pavilion at Harpeth is a beautiful and versitile facility perfect for your wedding celebration, rehersal dinner or bridal shower. Located just beyond our lake and fountain, you’ll have a spectacular view of our grounds, lovely in any season.

Plan catering using our menu or consult with our chef to create custom courses. Linen, floral and decoration services available.

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Gary CunninghamPresident & Publisher

Jenny UpchurchAssociate Editor

Lisa BoldProduction Manager

Chris Haga Bill BynumGraphic Design

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Copyright © and Trademarked ™ 1999, all rights reserved. No partof this publication may be reproduced in whole or in part by any

means without the express written consent of the publisher.

Brides To BePublished by GCA Publishing Co.

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ContentsChoosing a Photographer ...................................................................................................4Tips for a Whiter Smile .........................................................................................................6Origins of Wedding Rituals ..................................................................................................8Make Your Proposal Perfect................................................................................................9A Grand Exit ............................................................................................................................10Destination Weddings..................................................................................................12-13Wedding Venues .............................................................................................................14-15Wedding Rings ........................................................................................................................16Make Your Wedding Green ......................................................................................18-19New Times, New Traditions.............................................................................................20Catering Your Reception ............................................................................................22-23Who Pays For What ............................................................................................................24Wedding Fashion Trends....................................................................................................25Gowns ..................................................................................................................................26-31Tuxedos................................................................................................................................32-33Wedding Registry 101.................................................................................................34-35Flowers.................................................................................................................................38-39Sweet Surprises...............................................................................................................40-41Saying “I Do.”.....................................................................................................................42-43The Reception.........................................................................................................................44Selecting Wedding Music...................................................................................................45Thank You Notes ............................................................................................................46-47Budget Planner ........................................................................................................................48The Honeymoon...................................................................................................................49Directory of Wedding Services .....................................................................................50

Photo for Spring cover by ChrisMastalia Photography. Also: pg.4, group of people, pg. 16, hands,pg. 19, cut watermelon, pg. 33,man in beige tuxedo, pg. 41, topcake, pg. 43, hands pouring sand.

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One of the most treasured aspects of any wedding is the col-lection of memories from the big day. No one wants to gothrough life with only those memories. Photographs of that spe-cial day become treasures to be shared for generations. So whysettle for a photographer who will just point, shoot, take themoney and run?

To keep the memories as cherished as the day itself, select aphotographer who fits your needs — and style. After all, it’s yourwedding and the person behind the camera works for you, notthe other way around.

With that in mind, here are some tips to choosing a photog-rapher who will create those lasting images of your special day:

Shop aroundFollow some leads from advertisement, your wedding planner,

word of mouth or the Internet. Make sure that the photographer in the advertisement is the

one who will be photographing your wedding if he or she is partof a company.

Ask to see a complete portfolio from an entire wedding. De-termine if the photographer is consistent.

Decide on styleDo you want traditional photos with formal poses? Or are

you looking for someone with an artistic flair? Take a look ateach photographer's portfolio to see his range of ability.

Inquire about the photographer’s style. Does he shoot photo-journalism, formal, classic or candid shots?

How will the photos be mixed and matched in terms of blackand white verses color photos. Does he produce a DUD orCD?

Decide on coverageThis also has to do with cost. Do you want just the cere-

mony photographed? Or do you want pictures of the reception, too? Discuss rates

with the photographer and what those prices encompass.

Establish rapportMake sure you communicate well with your photographer

and there is a good rapport between the two of you.Is she friendly and helpful? Or does he have some grandiose

artistic vision that he'd rather pursue? Make sure you see eye-to-eye.

Choosing a Photographer

Wedding memories don’t fade, so picksomeone who will capture them best

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Gauge experienceSee if your photographer is fa-

miliar with the location. Doesshe/he know ideal spots to capturegood angles? Also, if you are work-ing with a studio, get a portfolio andinformation on the specific photogra-pher you will be working with.

Some studios like to show thework of their best man and then sendover a neophyte once the package ispurchased. Remember, it’s always best toget a personal reference.

Understand servicesSome photographers go the extra mile

(upload pictures to the Internet, touch upphotos, give advice on presentation, etc.),while others snap the pictures, hand you theundeveloped film and take off.

Determine what is included in your package and what costsextra. Understand the contract as well as specifics such as the

cost of reprints and albums. Also, discuss how long does it will take to re-

ceive your proofs, your finished album, bridal por-trait, etc.

Ensure reliabilityHave a backup plan in place if your photog-

rapher bails. Do some background checkingwith the Better Business Bureauto makesure he doesn't have any unresolved issues.

Make sure that you fully understand de-posit and cancellation procedures.

Find your comfort levelHas this person photographed other

weddings? Does he/she do this for aliving or for fun?

Personality is important - Is the photog-rapher someone you feel you can get along with? Is the

"chemistry" there?

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On your wedding day, youwant a radiant smile, one cap-tured forever in photos.

Are you proud of your smile?Or do darker teeth keep youfrom smiling as much as you’dlike?

According to an AmericanAcademy of Cosmetic Dentistrysurvey, 99.7 percent of adults feelthat a smile is an important so-cial asset. When asked what theywould like to improve mostabout their smile, the most com-mon response was to havewhiter teeth.

Here are some suggestionsfrom Dr. Ellen Shemancik, whosepractice is located at 105 KennerAve.

• Start with a checkup. A professional cleaning and exami-nation is your first step to whiter teeth. Make sure you get anycavities treated and talk with your dentist about which whiten-ing method may be best for you. Not everyone is a candidatefor a procedure, so it is important to ask your dentist.

• Watch your habits. Darker foods and beverages can stainyour teeth. Limit your exposure to coffee, tea, red wine, sodasand berries. When drinking beverages that stain, use a straw tominimize discoloration. Even if you drink coffee, you can stillwhiten your teeth. Those stains are superficial and will polish offwith your professional cleanings.

• Practice good oral hygiene. Brush at least two times perday and floss regularly.

• If you are planning on whitening your teeth for a special oc-casion such as a wedding, it is recommended to have this doneone month before the special day. As your wedding date gets

close, there are many other things to do other than worryabout your smile.

• Choose an option. In-office tooth whitening could be theanswer for dark teeth. There are different options for toothwhitening, and everyone has a personal preference, whether itis white strips or personalized whitening trays. For many, thebusy lifestyle they lead makes instant gratification the prefer-ence and in-office whitening provides that.

Shemancik uses the ZOOM system, the same as seen on thetelevision show “Extreme Makeover.” Within a two-hour visit,your teeth can be brightened to give a more positive, youngerappearance. The system provides whitening trays and solutionfor home use as well as the in-office treatment.

Achieving a health, white smile is easy to do if you followthese tips. Shemancik said. We can help you with that.

Tips for whiter teethand a brighter smile.

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Have you ever wondered why the bridalbouquet or the garter is tossed during thewedding reception? Or who was the firstbride to wear a veil and headpiece? What isthe origin behind brides wearing white? Orwhy the wedding band is worn on thefourth finger of the left hand?

Many of the wedding traditions com-monly practiced today date back to cen-turies-old rituals that have been modifiedfor modern times.

While the origins may be interesting,today’s versions of these popular traditionsand customs may be easy to follow.

The wedding ring’s circular shape has al-ways represented eternal love. However,wearing the wedding ring on the fourth fin-ger of the left hand is a romantic 19th-cen-tury belief that the vein of this finger ledstraight to the heart.

The custom of the engagement ringcame into being as marriage evolved into abusiness arrangement. The bridegroom pre-

sented an engagement ring as a sign of com-mitment to compensate the bride’s familyfor her hand in marriage. Today, the engage-ment ring represents a couple’s commit-ment to each other.

In year’s past, women covered their faceswith a veil to indicate their unavailability.Supposedly, a bride would wear a veil as adisguise so that evil spirits believed to belurking at the ceremony would not recog-nize her and do her harm.

Queen Victoria made white weddinggowns popular. Prior to her wedding, therehad been a long tradition of royal brideswearing silver wedding gowns. Before thistime, brides may have thought beyond theirwedding date and what to do with the gownafter the ceremony.

The term ‘honeymoon’ first originatedin Babylon, supposedly about 4,000 yearsago, according to some research. Honey-moon came into use for the month after awedding when the bride’s father would give

the bridegroom all the mead he wanted.Mead is a honey beer, and being so, theBabylon’s calendar was a lunar calendar,which as you know is based on the moon.The month was referred to as the ‘honeymonth,’ which has been adapted to be hon-eymoon.

An abundance of flowers and food atwedding celebrations symbolizes the fruit-fulness that families and friends wish for thebride and bridegroom. Thus began the tra-dition of flower decorations at weddings.

In ancient times, people lived in smallcommunities that offered limited choicesfor eligible mates. Marriage-by-capture fromother small communities became a popularway to obtain a wife. The would-be bride-groom brought along his strongest malefriends to kidnap the bride of his choice. Shesurrounded herself with female friends forprotection. Today, those friends have be-come the groomsmen and bridal attendants.

Now you know!

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Make your proposal

perfectYou've picked the perfect

ring. You've practiced thewords you'll use when youpropose. But you know shewould be livid if you asked heron the big screen at a sport-ing event.

These tips will help yourengagement stick out.

Take it personallyYou are proposing to the

woman or man of yourdreams. Ditch the typical vel-vet box and go for a person-alized, engraved keepsakebox. Then, take it one stepfurther and engrave some-thing meaningful to commem-orate this day. Your names, thedate you were engaged or apersonal love saying (that

maybe only the two of youunderstand) are ideal inscrip-tions.

Make it a partyA personal engagement

party is something that youand your families will remem-ber forever. Whether youchoose a private, intimate lo-cale to pop the question or abustling public setting, con-vene family and friends duringor afterward to celebrate to-gether. Plan a special party tocommemorate this momen-tous, life-changing occasion.Gathering at home withchampagne, maybe a cheeseplate and a homemade musicplaylist can make for one ofthe most memorable occa-

sions of your life. Just be sureyour future spouse is the cen-ter of attention, and you'll beset to make the event unfor-gettable.

Keep the momentNearly all couples choose

to hire photographers andvideographers to capture thememories of their weddingday. But isn't the engagementjust as momentous? As yourheart begins to race whenyour knee bends toward theground, the last thing on yourmind will be your camera. Butbeing able to actually lookback at this moment will besomething you'll treasure foryears to come.

If you plan on hiring a pro-

fessional photographer, makesure to call at least a fewweeks in advance. Luckily, un-like your wedding day, you'llprobably only need the pho-tographer for an hour or so.If you're already on a shoe-string budget, see if a friendwill take photos for you. Theymay not end up in an artgallery, but with a decentcamera, you'll be sure to havesome great snapshots of thebig moment.

When it's all said and done,you and your new fiancee maynot remember every tiny de-tail. But using these simpletips will ensure your engage-ment day is a truly unique,memorable experience foryou both.

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There comes a moment inevery wedding when the brideand groom leave family andfriends behind to start theirnew life together. So make thatdeparture something toremember.

If you look at websites suchas Pinterest, you’ll see couplestaking off in just abouteverything – Vespa scooters,bicycles built for two, horse-drawn carriages, even boats andhot-air balloons.

But among the most popularare cars, whether it’s a rusticfarm truck or a classic RollsRoyce.

How about a sports car?

Prince William and his bridesurprised the London crowdwhen they traded in horse-drawn for horse power. Theydeparted from BuckinghamPalace in the Aston Martinconvertible that his father,Prince Charles, received in1969.

Grand Avenue in Nashvillehas memory-making vehicles, agrey and a white Rolls RoyceSilver Cloud. One of their1960s-model Rolls Royce ingleaming porcelain wasformerly owned by croonerBing Crosby, the perfect send-off for a “White Christmas”wedding.

But classic luxury cars suchas the Rolls, or the vintageroadsters in Grand Avenue’sgarage, really suit any stylewedding.

“They’re timeless,” SamanthaSpector, Grand Avenue’smarketing director said. Thecars can add just a touch of glitzto a more modestceremony or cap offan

extravagant oneThe vehicles can play many

roles. The bride and her fatherhis father’s can arrive in one ascan the groom and his best man.Many couples though use themfor a getaway after thereception, she said.

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Traditionally handled by thegroomsmen (but bridesmaids,flower girls, and ring bearersare usually welcome to helpwhenever willing and able),decorating the getaway car canbe a chance to get creative.

While scribbling "Just Married"on a window is a start, to re-ally do your newlywed friendsproud, bring some imaginationalong and go all out.

• To write “Just Married,” it’ssmart to keep to the glasssurfaces. Shaving creams candamage painted surfaces –so don't send your coupleoff with a potential prob-lem, in particular if the caris rented.

• Tying shoes and/or cans tothe back is an old tradition.But, again, make sure that ispermitted with a rental.

• Decorating with streamersand balloons tied to the an-tenna, the side-view mir-rors, and the door handles

are festive, no-fuss fun. Usethe color scheme of thewedding, or just pick a rain-bow of colors. Vary thelengths of the streamers tomix things up, or throw insome curling ribbons to addvariety.

Decorating the Car

Vintage Automobiles Add Flair to the Finale of the Wedding Day

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In recent years, destina-tion weddings have becomea strong trend. Rather thanspend thousands of dollarsfor a ceremony and recep-tion that lasts a few hours,the bride and groom –sometimes alone andsometimes with family andguests – travel to a beauti-ful spot for days.

Is a destination weddingthe best choice for you? ABridal Guide writer sharedher experiences as a guestat a relative’s getaway nup-tials. Here are some issuesshe posed?

• Are you a sticklerabout making sure everysingle detail of your wed-ding is perfect? If so, youmight get stressed andoverwhelmed by hosting adestination bash. Let's faceit, every nuptials has its sur-prises and may not go ex-actly as planned, but this isespecially true when you'replanning from a distance.

• A destination weddingcan mean more time toenjoy seeing friends andrelatives. But do you wantthe responsibility of orches-trating activities before and

even after the ceremonyand reception?

• Dodge hometown is-sues with a destinationwedding. If you and yourpartner are from oppositeends of the country, differ-ent states or differentcountries altogether, a des-

tination wedding means youcan balance the invitationscales and there won’t beany hard feelings abouthosting the wedding in onefamily’s hometown over theothers. It also will giveguests a chance to enjoy anew place themselves.

• A destination weddingcan cut the guest list – andcosts. Only those that areclosest to you will reallymake the effort to be therewith you. Having a destina-tion wedding means thatyou are completely allowedto have another party athome for family and friends

that couldn’t make yournuptials abroad. Considerbooking at an all-inclusiveresort, which means thatyour guests’ food anddrinks will be covered out-side your reception.

• The website andbrochures look great – but

what if it turns out to beless than you imagined andexpected? If you can affordthe time and money, plan atrip to that resort or area.Ask your travel professionalif they have worked withthe resort before, and howtheir experience was. Ifyour travel planner hasbooked other weddings,perhaps you can talk to acouple about their experi-ence.

If you think a destinationwedding is for you, be sureto work with professionalat home and at the site.Get recommendations

from a travel expert forchoices and do your re-search. Many resorts havegreat wedding coordinatorsthat can handle all details.Your most difficult taskshould be arriving, meetingwith the coordinators andshowing up for your per-fectly executed and stress-free wedding.

• Keep the law in mind.Find out how long youhave to be there to qualifyfor a wedding license andany costs or documents,such as a birth certificate,that you’ll need.

If you’re looking for acompromise, consider adestination wedding closeto home. For example,beach weddings can be onFlorida’s Gulf Coast, NorthCarolina’s Outer Banks,South Carolina’s HiltonHead or Georgia’s Jekyll Is-land. Mountain-top vowscan embrace the GreatSmoky Mountains. A histori-cal city such as Savannah orCharleston could create afabulous backdrop andplenty of sight-seeing op-portunities.

The bride is from Nashville but the groom is from Los Angeles.

Dodge hometownissues with a destination wedding.

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Choosing a wedding venue should be one of the firstdecisions you’ll make. If your heart is set on a particularspot, you might even set the date depending on its avail-ability.

A church wedding is still the favorite choice for manycouples. Some will offer a space where the reception canbe held, but others may dictate a second venue for theafter-wedding festivities.

Brides can find a myriad of choices for non-churchweddings and receptions, from historic homes to publicfacilities to hotels and sports and social clubs. All offer aparticular charm.

Belmont Mansion and Travellers Rest are two of manyhistoric homes that are set up for weddings and recep-tions. And while many churches can't book a Decemberwedding, Belmont’s extravagant holiday decorations offera beautiful setting from mid-November through earlyJanuary.

Many brides think outside the box. Dyer Observatoryis set atop one of the 12 highest peaks in Middle Ten-nessee and surrounded by Radnor Lake state park. An Belmont Mansion

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astronomer is on duty so wedding and re-ception guests can look through the tele-scope and learn about the stars and moon,said Lynn MacDonald, events planner atDyer. Dyer Observatory offers an alter-nate sheltered spot for the wedding cer-emony if storms threaten, too.

There’s nothing like a beautiful out-door wedding. A pond encircled withgreenery and flowers is a setting at ThePavilion at Harpeth in Bellevue. The in-doors room opens up to the outdoorswith large doors, giving it that indoor/out-door feeling, said Sandra Walker at ThePavilion.

The Mill at Lebanon, a 105-year-oldwoolen mill listed on the National Regis-

ter of Historic Places, has eightvenues for weddings and recep-tions, from a cozy spot for 200to one for 400 with a dancefloor.

If convenience is a priority,the Hampton Inn at Green Hillscan provide settings for the cer-emony, including its rooftopatrium, reception and guests

rooms.The Country Music Hall of Fame is an-

other one-stop solution for a rehearsaldinner, ceremony and reception. You caneven include a Museum tour for yourwedding guests - an experience they willnever forget.

Be sure to investigate parking andwhether the venue is handicapped acces-sible. Ask about any restrictions: Somevenues may not allow loud music, candlesor confetti; some may restrict late-nightparties or alcohol.

Be sure to visit each spot you are con-sidering and make sure the contract is ex-plicit and detailed so there are nosurprises on the wedding day.

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Top trends in rings for 2014

• For a classic choice, pick colorless,round diamonds, by far the most popular cut in America.

• Matching bridal sets. Some engagementrings can be paired with a matching wedding bandthat wraps around the center stone or fits against the engage-ment ring like a puzzle piece. These intricate designs come inmany beautiful variations, from simple and sophisticated to elab-orate and dazzling.

• Fashion-forward and streamlined. In a channel setting, dia-mond(s) or gemstone(s) are set flush between two strips ofmetal that holds them in place side by side with no additionalprongs between the stones. This type of setting protects theedge, or girdle, of the gemstone, and is a very secure setting.Channel-set gemstones provide a smooth setting making themless likely to get snagged on hair or clothing.

• Stacking rings. Some women are opting for diamond eternity

bands instead of a traditional engagement ring, and they createstacks of rings with each anniversary, while others start out mix-ing diamond and colored stone bands in different styles.”

• Want an edgier look? Rather than put all the cash toward onegiant rock, use pavé, - which is a a series of tinydiamonds that add extra sparkle – to formwhat is called a halo around the centerstone. It’s one way to save money aswrapping the biggest stone in smallerstones will make it look larger.

• Non-traditional. Some people may not want to go the diamondroute, and there are plenty of choices. There are colored dia-monds (pairing black and white diamonds as in “Sex and City2”),colored gemstones (as in the Duchess of Cambridge’s sapphirestunner), pearls and no-stone metal rings.

• Vintage rings. Using a family heirloom or finding an antique ringcan offer a real one-of-a-kind ring. Be sure, however, to checkthe ring’s durability, such as loose settings for the stone (shake itgently to see if there’s a rattle) or worn weak spots on the band.

Top trends for 2014

WEDDINGRINGS

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He proposes; you accept; or visa versa. When a guy pro-poses, he often presents his future bride with an engagementring. However, an engagement ring isn’t required to propose.Some couples shop for the ring together, which enables thewoman to help select her own ring. Other couples may be-come engaged long before a ring is purchased. There’s also theoption of foregoing an engagement ring altogether and givingthe bride a wedding band. It’s a matter of personal choice.

While selecting an engagement ring is exciting, the processcan also be stressful. Jewelry terminology can be foreign andthe range of rings can make it hard to know where to start andwhat to choose. This is where reputable jewelers are needed.

Traditionally, engagement rings are diamonds; however, anygemstone can be incorporated into a beautiful setting. Talk withthe jeweler to know which gemstones are more durable foreveryday wear. A family heirloom as an engagement ringcomes with family tradition and memories.

The color and shape of the diamond or gemstone will alsodetermine whether the ring is gold, which comes in 10kt, 14ktor 18kt; platinum, which is long wearing and very dense, so it

will feel heavier than gold; or titanium, which is light weight.The four C’s in selecting a diamond can be explained by

your jeweler, during which time he or she can show you thedifference in cut, color, clarity and carat weight – all of whichwill be determined by your budget.

HIS RINGThere is no mathematical formula that will determine the

perfect ring for him. However, there are some considerationsthat are helpful when choosing his ring. The ring should be ap-propriate for his lifestyle. Will he wear it every day, play sportswhile wearing the ring and can you wear it to work – meaningdoes your job prohibit wearing rings for safety measures. Thering should reflect his personality: no frills, some a bit different,etc.

The ring should be comfortable to wear, especially if he isn’tused to wearing a ring. The shape and width of the ring are twocomfort factors.

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Here are some tips on mak-ing your wedding “green:”

SOMETHING OLD Reusing and repurposing

eliminates the need to use ma-terials and energy for manufac-ture and transportation. Forexample, choose a vintage en-gagement and wedding ring,many jewelers have items fromestates as well as new ones.Reuse a ring, perhaps a familypiece, with a new setting.

Brides are finding a greatway to have a special dress is

to repurpose a vintage one,whether it’s from a mother orgrandmother or one from ashop. O, perhaps a vintagepiece can be repurposed as anaccessory, such as veil or train.For attendants, pick out acolor and let them choose anew dress or one they alreadyown that coordinates.

SOMETHING NEW Paperless e-vites might be

the most eco-friendly way togo, but if you want somethingmore traditional, try recycledpaper and ask for an onlineRSVP. Skip the printed direc-tions and other info oftenstuffed into the envelope, andmake your guests' first stop aWebsite with all the details.

Even though most photog-

raphers are usingdigital cameras,it's a must for agreen wedding.Digital photosdon't use theharsh chemicals,wasted paper,and rolls of filmthat film photog-raphy does. Another plus isyou get to choose exactlywhat images you want printed.Ask your photographer if theyallow you to keep the digitalimages after the wedding iscomplete, then you can save adigital album of your big day.

SOMETHINGBORROWED

Let guests share the ride ona fuel-efficient shuttle. Buses

can bring guests from hotels tothe wedding or to the recep-tion. It makes it easy for out-of-town guests and lets friendsand family enjoy alcohol at thereception without worryingabout driving, Samantha Spec-tor at Grand Avenue said.

If your guest list is mostlylocal, factor in the shortest tripfor most when choosing thelocations of your ceremoniesand events.

MAKE YOUR WEDDING ‘GREEN’Smart choices can keep an event eco-friendly

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Local is the name ofthe game here.

For your meal, talk tothe farmers at your localmarket to see what will befresh at the time of yourwedding. If you are workingwith a caterer, discuss localseasonal foods that you'dlove to see on the menu.

Check out wineries andbreweries in your area orresearch providers with an

eco-friendly product.For your and your at-

tendants’ flowers, find outwhat flowers grow locallyand the seasonal choices inyour area.

Instead of traditionalcenterpieces, try pottedplants that can double asgifts to your guests.

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PAY IT FORWARD

Finding the right gift for thenewlyweds can be difficult.While registries help to pointguests in the right direction,many couples are getting mar-ried later in life and already haveall the household items that arecommon wedding gifts. To pro-vide the couple with a smallnest egg to use however theywish, a check is always a greatand safe gift idea. Several finan-cial institutions offer mobilecheck deposit through theirbanking app, allowing the couplethe flexibility to deposit checkson-the-go to help cover out-standing vendor payments oruse on their honeymoon. An-other new-age trend is con-tributing to a couple'shoneymoon fund.

TEMPER TECH USE

Even weddings are going hi-tech. There are numerous web-sites available that can help thecouple to organize the process,communicate with guests andshare photos after the cere-mony. But a few things — suchas a handwritten "thank you"note — should steer clear ofthe hi-tech lure. In this gadget-driven society, everyone is car-rying a smartphone. Couplescan post a tasteful notice at theentrance of the ceremony loca-tion or in the program to re-mind guests to turn off theircell phone ringers and refrainfrom use during the ceremony.Some couples may actually en-courage guests to take photosand share images via socialmedia, but guests should usephones only as a camera andupload images after the cere-mony.

RESPECT PERSONALIZATION

Couples want their specialday to reflect who they are andwhat is important to them.While previous generations tra-ditionally wed in places of wor-ship, many modern coupleschoose to tie the knot at a sen-timental location, like wherethey had their first date. Thedecor, music and even the foodand drink served at a weddingmay have a personal story be-hind it. No matter how non-tra-ditional the element may be,guests should eagerly partake inthe festivities, acknowledgingand respecting the couple's in-dividualization.

BE ALL-INCLUSIVE

In the past, bridal showerswere strictly for the bride andbachelor parties were a men-only affair. Nowadays, these fes-tivities are no longergender-specific. Showers can bethrown for the couple in unisonand include creative themes like"stock the bar" or "time of day."Bachelor and bachelorette par-ties can also be conjoined to in-volve the entire bridal party in adestination event. And whilethese events are a celebrationof joy, expenses can add upquickly. If you use a rewardscard, you can earn points onpurchases to pay for all or partof your trip. This is great forboth the bride and groom andguests traveling to the wedding.

Modern wedding trends arebuilding new traditions.

October is the new June.More and more, weddings aretaking place in the height of fallfoliage, heart of winter andprime holiday season, includingthe ever-popular New Year's Eveceremony.

But it's not just the weddingseason that has drasticallyevolved over the past decade, it'severything from roles andresponsibilities to gift-giving.

As you gear up to celebratethe union of your beloved familyor friends — or even your own

— know what to expect fromthe changing tides of weddings.Lizzie Post, co-author of "EmilyPost's Etiquette, 18th edition"and great-great-granddaughterof Emily Post, helps couplesnavigate the new traditions ofweddings.

As decades pass, so willtraditions, but proper etiquetteis timeless. Be prepared for thenext wedding you attend andknow what to expect fromchanges in the weddinglandscape with these importantpieces of advice:

NEW TIMES, NEW TRADITIONS: Modern Wedding Trends from Stock-the-bar Parties to Social Networking Sites

As trends and expectations shift, so will how major life milestones are celebrated. It is important to celebrate these moments in lifewith grace and support for the happy couple — after all, it's their day — and it should be as unique as they are.

For more etiquette advice on navigating 21st century weddings, visit www.emilypost.com.

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what shoes the bride wore or

what flowers were in her wed-

ding bouquet. If the food is

good, it leaves a good memory.

If it’s mediocre, it may leave a

bad taste in guests’ minds.

Once the wedding venue has

been reserved for the recep-

tion, the next step is to select a

caterer, which is usually influ-

enced by the venue and type of

reception.

Planning an event as impor-

tant as a wedding isn’t some-

thing that is commonplace for

most brides. The reception en-

compasses between 30 and 50

percent of the total wedding

budget, therefore, choosing the

right caterer is vital.

A good starting place is to

ask if the wedding reception fa-

cility has a list of caterers from

which to choose. Chances are

these caterers have a good rep-

utation and deliver excellent

services or they wouldn’t have

the venue’s seal of approval.

Plus, these caterers are familiar

with the kitchen, its layout and

the coordinator. Check to see if

the venue allows caterers not

on their list to be brought in.

Word of mouth is a good

source for finding a caterer. Ask

friends and family for recom-

mendations.

When setting the catering

budget, the bride and bride-

groom should ask themselves

how important the food and

drinks are in the scheme of

things. The higher on the list of

importance, the more the re-

ception costs will eat up the

budget. Catering costs are de-

termined by the number of

guests attending, the number of

courses served and food

choices offered, rentals, the way

in which the food is served and

the caterer’s level of experi-

ence.

Your flexibility on these vari-

ables will determine how much

wiggle room the caterer will

have in creating the best menu

for your budget.

Today’s brides are looking

for ways to truly personalize all

aspects of their wedding and

the reception is no exception.

One trend is a dessert bar

CATERING

YOUR RECEPTION

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QUESTIONS TO ASK A CATERER :

1. Ask for references! And check them out. Listen to what

they say. Was the food good and was there enough for

everyone? How did the room look when you first en-

tered? Was everything delivered as discussed? Was there

a signature touch that made things even better?

2. Carefully review the contract. Read all fine print and ask

for clarification before signing. This is important because

it will help avoid being billed for items that weren’t clearly

stated in the agreement.

3. Ask about his or her staff. Experienced caterers who

come highly recommended will have an experienced, well-

trained staff. Great service is definitely worth the added

cost. If you need a bartender, ask if her or she is provided

and if you provide liquor, is there a corkage fee?

4. Is there a minimum or maximum number of guests re-

quired?

5. What is the payment schedule? When does the deposit

need to be paid? Is there a refund or cancellation policy?

And when is the final headcount required?

6. Is food tasting from the menu offered? If so, when is this

scheduled? During the tasting, the bride and bridegroom

can determine firsthand the quality of food and presen-

tation, as well as how well they get along with the caterer.

7. Trust your instincts! Did you connect with the person

who will be playing a vital role in your reception?

where guests enjoy bite-size

morsels rather than the tradi-

tional wedding cake. Another is

interactive platforms and food

stations, which make events

more exciting for guests.

For brides on a smaller

budget, breakfast and brunch

weddings are on the rise.

Many brides are looking for

catering that features locally

grown an/or organic foods.

Caterers can customize a

menu according to dietary

needs, such as vegan, gluten-

free, etc.

Consider food items as

wedding favors, even part of

the table decorations. It’s even

better if they are locally grown,

such as jams and mustards.

The trend of weddings

going more rustic and relaxed

extends to the food. Rather

than a formal menu, guests

enjoy comfort food served

family-style at sit-down din-

ners.

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• Bride’s engagement and wedding rings• Honeymoon• Wedding gift for the bride • Groomsmen gifts• Marriage license• Bride’s bouquet• Corsages for both mothers• Boutonnieres for men in wedding party• Clergy, wedding officiant or minister’s fee• Accommodations for out-of-town best manand ushers• Ties and accessories for men in wedding party

• Wedding attire• Wedding gifts for the newlyweds

The Groom

Bridegroom�s Family

Best Man

The Attendants

• Bachelor party

• The rehearsal dinner• Their own attire• A gift for the bride and bridegroom

Who Pays...For What

• Wedding planner• Engagement party and announcement• Wedding reception• Bride’s attire• Invitations, announcements, thank you notes• Photographer and Videographer• Flowers and accessories for bridesmaids and flower girl• Ring bearer’s accessories• Transportation for bridal party from ceremonyto reception• All gratuities• Cost of the ceremony, including rental ofchurch, temple or other facility, fees for organist,soloists or choir, ceremony flowers and otherdecorations• Their own attire• Gift for the bride and bridegroom

(wedding may be that gift!)

The Bride

The Bride�s Family

The Maid of Honor

• Wedding ring for the bridegroom• Gifts for attendants• Wedding gift for the bridegroom• Accommodations for out-of-town attendants• Bridesmaids’ luncheon• Personal stationery

• Wedding shower• Bachelorette party

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Wedding fashion forecasters see ashift from all-white weddings. Butwe're not talking about a rainbow ofcolor here. A couple can find apalette that suits them, from brightand bold to pale and pretty.

Brides.com suggests a neutral,muted palette, like whites, ivories andmetallic gold, and adding a bold colorlike poppy red, tangerine or indigoblue. Brides will infuse color intothose big details that everyone willsee, from a pop of color in all of yourflorals and incredible colorful sugarflowers to bright nail polish tomatch.

Two big colors are pink and blue,according to wedding industry fore-casters.

Southern Bride expects rose,blush, and soft pink tones are goingto be very on trend this season, butthese colors aren’t just for brides-maids. Wedding gown forecasters arepredicting that blush toned gowns,hints of rose, and even pink gownsare going to be very popular thisyear. Top gown designers, such asVera Wang and her White by VeraWang Collection have already showngorgeous pink gowns in their 2014Spring Collections.

Blue will be a popular colorchoice for weddings in 2014, accord-ing to Afloral.com. Navy blue wed-ding themes will be combined withoff white and soft pinks. Midnightblue with silver will be a big hit as

will royal blue and gold. Ice blues andgrays will also show up in 2014 wed-dings. Look for brides wearing blueaccents such as blue sashes, blue hairaccessories, and, of course, there willbe grooms with blue bows and tiesand bridesmaids dresses in shades ofblue.

The two-tone black and whitetrend is a chic and dramatic way tomake your wedding dress even moreformal. Scared to go all the way? Adda thin black sash or pair your gownwith mod onyx accessories for asimilar effect.

As far as styles, the Cinderellalook of a full ball gown will always bepopular. But brides looking for amore fashion-forward style haveplenty of choices, as shown on therunway shows for Spring 2014.

The bridal fashion runways werefull of simple, classic wedding dresseswith added sparkle along the neck-line - from sheer illusion necklineswith small beading to larger embroi-dered rhinestones and crystals.

And since most wedding photosare taken from the waist up, sparklyor unique details are best capturedon the neckline or around the waistof the wedding dress.

Southern Bride also expects a lotof lace, sticking with the soft andwhimsical theme for the year. Lacecan be used for an all-over gown orit can appear as beautiful vintage in-spired sleeves on gowns, long and

elaborate trains made of lace, andalso in delicate and romantic veils.

Nashville wedding experts areseeing sleeves after years of straplessgowns. Many brides are opting for acap sleeve, said Mary Steverson ofRebel Hill Florist.

For brides wanting a bare look,designers focused on the back forSpring 2014. Some added a touch ofdrama in the shape of an X across adeep, plunging back. Graphic, boldand undeniably elegant (especiallywhen done in Chantilly lace or ac-cented with crystals), an open back isextremely sexy. It’s a great alternativeto a strapless wedding dress, too.

For the bride who doesn't want a"big, serious ball gown" this season'scrop of '50s-style ankle-length wed-ding dresses offer a playful alterna-tive. Designers included mini dresses,too

Nothing makes a bride feel morespecial than a sweet little crown offlowers atop her head. There are notmany other times in a girl’s life whenshe gets to wear a beautiful littlecrown, so take this opportunity andgo for it!

2014 is the year for hair embell-ishments. Doesn’t have to be acrown - any type of hair accessoryform vintage hair pins and barrettesto carefully placed flowers in a whim-sical updo will work just perfectlywith this trend.

Fashion TrendsWedding

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All gowns custom made byJoy Bridal Studio5008 Thoroughbred Lane,Brentwood, TN [email protected]

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All gowns custom made byJoy Bridal Studio

5008 Thoroughbred Lane,Brentwood, TN 37027

[email protected]

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“Emma”Mermaid silhouette witha Caroline sweetheartneckline and a low V back.Available atOlia Zavozina Bridalwww.oliazavozina.com

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“Savannah”A modified A-line silk

shantung gown with an adjusted sweetheart neckline

and a low-V back. Available at

Olia Zavozina Bridalwww.oliazavozina.com

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“Ana”An embroidered lace and chiffon rose cocktail dress with a deep sweetheart necklineand slight low-V back.Available atOlia Zavozina Bridalwww.oliazavozina.com

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Formal wear available at Street Tuxedo

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WeddingRegistry

101

BEFORE BUILDING YOUR REGISTRY

It's no wonder why guests lovethe ease and simplicity of a gift reg-istry. But many couples may notknow where to begin when settingout to create this useful list.

Here are some helpful pointersto help you get started on creat-ing a perfect wedding registry:

• Meet with a Consultant: Thesetrained professionals are on siteto assist and discuss everythingyou want and need. It's a good

place to start if you have ques-tions on what items to includeand what brands are available.

• Look for Special Programs:Some stores offer special fea-tures, such as the option of giftcards.

For engaged couples, it can seem as if there are a million things to accomplishbefore the big day arrives. One essential piece of the wedding puzzle involvescreating a registry that makes it easy for guests to celebrate your union with

gifts that reflect your personality as a couple.

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• Start Early: Most couples like to register4-6 months before their wedding date,which allows more time for choosingitems, planning for showers and meetingother deadlines.

• Register Together: Whether it's in-store,online or both — make a day of it andhave fun selecting all the things that willbe part of your new life together.

• Choose Different Price Points: Guestswill appreciate a varied list that has manygift options to fit their personal budget.

• Create a Registry That Reflects You: Ifyou're a laid-back, easygoing couple, thenconsider registering for a more casualdinnerware pattern that you can useevery day, then mix in some fancy piecesto use for those special occasions. If youenjoy entertaining friends and family, besure to choose a range of serveware andbarware.

MAKING THE RIGHT CHOICES

With all the things needed to properlystock your home, selecting the right onescan seem overwhelming. Here are sometips to keep in mind while adding to yourregistry:

• Select Your Settings: A five-piece settingis meant to serve one person and in-cludes a dinner plate, salad plate, breadand butter plate, tea cup and saucer. Ifyou want to serve eight guests, you willneed to register for eight five-piece set-tings.

• Factor in Some Extras: When registeringfor drinkware, be sure to register for afew extras in each glass size in casesome are broken down the road.

• Protect Your Cutlery: Be sure to choosea sturdy cutting board to protect your

knife blades from chips and cracks. Youcan keep your cutlery in top conditionby registering for a honing steel andknife sharpener.

• Stock Up on Kitchen Must-Haves: Whenit comes to cookware, make sure tostock up on the essentials. This shouldinclude a fry pan, saute pan, grill pan,sauteuse (round, deep-sided design forsauteing on the stovetop or baking inthe oven) and a chef's pan.

• Opt for the Basics: White dinnerware al-lows you to transform the look of yourtable year-round by changing the dÈcorand accessories around it. The classiclook will be a design that you can ap-preciate for years to come.

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Lawrence M. Lipman, CRSThe Lipman Group

Sothebyʼs International Realty(615) 463-3333

thelipmangroupsothebysrealty.com

Karen Moore, CRSFridrich & Clark Realty

(615) [email protected]

Sam Coleman, CRSFridrich & Clark Realty

(615) 210-6057IAMSAMSHOMES.COM

Bill E. Henson, Jr., PresidentBroker, ABR, CRS

Silverpointe Properties(615) 479-6777

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Wedding planners and florists saythat as we are moving further into thetwenty-first century, brides are driftingfurther away from tradition. But daringto be different with a modern weddingdoes not mean that good taste shouldbe abandoned. Seasoned florists suggestthat the bride’s special day – as shedreamed – will be fulfilled if they bringan open mind when meeting with theflorist.

The 2014 bride, as in previous years,is still in love with roses. But ratherthan tight rosebuds, the preferencetoday is for the more open rose andgarden varieties that look more like apeony blossom, Mary Steverson ofRebel Hill Florist said.

The shape of the bouquet is softer,too, inspired by a vintage look, Stever-son said.

Afloral.com also sees vintage as one

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Another popular theme is for aWoodland Theme. Think fairy-tale, old-growth forest with refined romantic el-ements. Woodland weddings will becomposed of floral accents and vines,flower crowns for the bride, and natu-ral accessories such as wood and fernsin the décor. Floral wreaths can containferns and sprigs of lavender. Otherwedding decorations such as naturalwood and birch containers that bringthe woodland inside will also be popu-lar.

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mentsand bluebouquetswith hy-drangeas,coneflowersand blue roses will be in vogue.

Local brides are using color in theirbouquets, too, often in contrasting col-ors rather than a monochromatic look,Steverson said. Bridesmaids carry flow-ers that pop against the color of theirdresses, she said, such as peach-colorblooms against a navy blue or red dress.

While some brides have had every-thing planned but the bridegroom sincethey were little girls, wedding profes-sionals believe that having an open mindas well as a “work-together” attitude isthe best formula to making the weddingas beautiful as possible. Depending on

the season the wedding is planned,some flowers are easier to find andless expensive than others. There-fore, it is essential that brides keepan open mind.

Winter weddings can be as beau-tiful as the summer or spring cele-

brations but still include seasonalaccents. Colors in deep reds, greens andwinter white can heat up winter wed-dings. Consider Amaryllis, Jasmine, Poin-settia, Star of Bethlehem, Star Glazer Lilyor Holly to be the game-changers.

Summer and spring offer awide variety of flowers andcolors from white foundin Queen Anne’s lace,Tuberose, MonteCasino Asters, hy-drangea or Iris. Sun-flowers continue tobe very popularsummer flower, aswell as the pink,white, yellow, orangeor red Gerbera Daisy.

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Providing color samples of the wed-ding scheme as well as the gown itselfwill help your florist create a beautifulcombination.

A firm believer in working togetherwith the couple to create a beautifulwedding, Rebel Hill Florist’s Steverson

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White cakes remain the popular choice in

Nashville, but brides are customizing their show-

pieces with exotic flavors and fillings and elab-

orate decorations.

Nashville cake makers report brides like

cakes with lots of texture. One trend is

replicating design elements from the bride’s

dress – lace, ruffles and beading – with icing

on the cake.

And while most are white on white, some

stunning colorful combinations are possible, such

as a gray cake with white designs.

Painted cakes are big for 2014, according to

bridal trend forecasters. These creative cakes

are sometimes very precise with stenciled de-

signs and even monograms or they can be

utterly unique creations with freestyle

painted flowers, butterflies or clouds. The

most incredible part of painted cakes is that

they have absolutely no limits for a talented

designer. You can also have painted cupcakes

or cookies as well!

The traditional white icing may cover layers of

different colors and flavors. According to Bridal Guide,

the top flavors are red velvet, chocolate and vanilla.

This year’s brides are expected to request fill-

ings with mouth-puckering tastes such as

mango or passion fruit. And still in style? Dif-

ferent flavor for each layer.

Bakers can use fillings to add the flavors

o infuse the cake layers with flavors, such as

chocolate cake with peppermint or pista-

chio.

To help customize the cake, bring in photos

and color samples of the bride’s and attendants’

dresses and their flowers, the venue and the deco-

rations for the reception area. Photos of design ideas,

such as cakes, are also helpful. To ensure that your

cake will look exactly like the one in the photo,

ask to see a photo of one the baker has made.

It’s important to book a baker well in ad-

vance, even a year, in particular if you have an

elaborate or specific design in mind,.

Cost will be determined by size and detail.

The more elaborate the design, usually the more

costly the cake. Be clear on details and separate

charges such as delivery and set-up.

More and more brides are keeping allergies and food

sensitivities of guests and attendants in mind. Consider

an alternative cake that is gluten-free, dairy-free or

vegan. If only a few guests need special considera-

tion, However, servers use a different knife, and

those guests should be served first or individu-

ally.

One national trend is unfrosted cakes: layers

and fillings are exposed with drizzles of caramel

or chocolate on top. A recipe from Martha Stew-art Weddings is for tiers of strawberry shortcake

topped with fresh whole strawberries.

Or skip the cake entirely. Cupcakes can be served on a

tiered platter to replace the cake. Or they can be set out

or passed around to supplement the main cake. Ven-

dors such as The Painted Cupcake can do custom

colors and designs for showers and bridal teas as

well as wedding receptions.

One trend that is popping up is homemade

mini-desserts instead of or in addition to the tra-

ditional wedding cake. Small pies, individual ba-

nana puddings and baby cobblers are all the rage.

These small bites give more variety, and guests can

mingle and eat their desserts.

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When you are readyto say “I do,” personalizingthe ceremony can makethat special day evenmore meaningful.

Gary Copeland ofFranklin officiates atdozens of weddings andhelps partners-to-be crafta ceremony that symbol-izes their union as well aspleasing guests and family.

While it’s best to startthinking early about thedetails of the ceremony,he said, “I’ve had peoplewho call me a year ahead,some six months, somethree months – some acouple of weeks before!”

The first step is decid-ing whether a couplewants a Christian serviceor a civil one. There arethousands of Christianservices, so Copeland typ-ically provides two Chris-tian texts and two civiltexts. Couple cans pickone of those or perhapsblend them.

Many couples want toinclude personal vows.Some want only the per-

sonal vows. Whatever thechoice, couples need towrite down the wordsthey want to say and havethem during the cere-mony. Copeland usuallyhas the bride’s piece ofpaper – since weddinggowns seldom includepockets.

Copeland encouragescouples to include a sym-bolic action such as light-ing a unity candle orpouring sand. One tip:Candles don't do welloutdoors, so he prefersthe sand ceremony there.

Each person chooses acolor of sand that isplaced into containers,preferably two shadesthat contrast. During theservice, each pours a half-inch, alternating the col-ors, to form stripes. “Thewhole idea is to becomeone,” he said.

Sometimes Copelandpours white sand to sym-bolize God in the mar-riage. When a marriageblends families, childrencan participate in lighting

Personal touches addmeaning to ceremony

s a y i n g

“I do.”

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a candle or pouring a layerof sand.

Ethnic traditions can beincorporated. At one wed-ding he officiated at, guestsdraped the new husbandand wife in ropes, symboliz-ing their union and the

good wishes and support ofthe family and friends.Often times he tells youngcouples that these tradi-tions may not mean a lot tothem but have great sym-bolism for parents rograndparents.

And while he wears asuit at the majority of wed-dings, Copeland can wear arobe if, again, the parents orgrandparents expect that.He can also dress down inslacks and a shirt for a verycasual service.

Overall, Copeland said,couples should put asmuch thought as possibleinto making their cere-mony unique. “I’m up foranything within the boundsof good taste because it’stheir wedding.”

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THE RECEPTION...setting the mood

While the food is the main

concern, decorations for the

reception must be planned

carefully and well in advance.

The style of your wedding,

any theme and definitely the

color scheme are guides for

planning. Table arrangements

can mirror your wedding party

bouquets. Succulents are popu-

lar in both, Mary Steverson of

Rebel Hill Florist said. Keep

height in mind — a tall arrange-

ment can anchor the head table

or buffet but choose lower

ones for seating tables so

guests’ views aren’t blocked.

For a large reception with

between 20 and 30 tables, be

sure to vary the floral pieces,

Steverson said. “We do three

different styles so it creates

some interest when you look at

the room as a whole,” Stever-

son said.

If it’s a sit-down event, dec-

orate your tables with table-

cloths and napkins in the

wedding colors. For a rustic

theme, yards of burlap or seer-

sucker can do duty as table-

cloths.

Rather than renting china,

especially for a smaller party,

borrow place settings from

your and relatives’ china cabi-

nets. It’s a great excuse to use

that formal china. (Be sure to

factor in who will do the col-

lecting and cleaning!)

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Whether a bride wants tocome down the aisle to a tra-ditional song such as the com-monly known “Here comesthe bride” from “WeddingMarch,” or if she would preferto a enter to the populartechno beat with her weddingparty dancing around to give alighter effect, the music canshow the personality of thecouple and set the tone for theentire wedding.

A Brief

History Lesson

The “Bridal Chorus” is thesecond of two traditional“Wedding March” songs thatare well-known pieces thathave been around for hun-dreds of years. The “WeddingMarch” is still popular withtoday’s bride.

In 1842, Felix Mendelssohnwrote “Wedding March,”which seems to be the mostpopular recessional at wed-dings still today. It is upbeat andis usually the song that is beingplayed as the bride and bride-groom are leaving the church.

Written in 1848 by RichardWagner for the opera Lohen-grin, “Bridal Chorus” is usuallyplayed as the processional andis one of the most famousarrangements.

While these songs are partof some of the most traditionalwedding songs, many couples

do not want to the traditional.Many select music that repre-sents their personality. Somechoose to come down theaisle dancing to Chris Brown’s“Forever….yeah, forever” likethe YouTube sensation “JKWedding Entrance Dance.” Re-gardless, the music sets thetone for the entire wedding,and guidelines are still neededif you want a beautiful wed-ding.

Finding

The Right Songs

Songs should be chosenthat best define a couple’s re-lationship. Whether it isthrough lyrics or melody, onlythe bride and bridegroom un-derstand what best representsthemselves and they shouldfind the music that will helpthe family and friends see aswell.

If hiring a professional vo-calist is desired, they usuallyhave an accompanying piano,guitar or harp player and willusually play from one to foursongs depending on the lengthof the ceremony. The profes-sional musicians can help youfind the right song if you workwith them and keep an openmind. Make sure if you choosea professional vocalist, they un-derstand the rules in case achurch or synagogue hasplaced restrictions on certainsongs. It would also be benefi-

cial for and a lot easier on themusician if you could try tofind sheet music either at alocal music store or online forwhatever songs you desire.

Alternative

Options

Another way to go aboutfinding the right music for thewedding is by hiring a com-poser/songwriter who canwrite a special song just for thewedding ceremony. There aremany websites devoted tosongwriters who can help cre-ate that special song for a cou-ple.

Also, a wedding doesn’thave to include words. Some-times a beautiful instrumentalis enough to paint a morebeautiful wedding. The churchorganist or pianist are com-mon and traditional choices; astring quartet can also be abeautiful choice; and, a harpistor other instrumentalists canoften deliver a better effectthan words themselves.

If you’ve decided upon amore modern wedding with amore modern venue, hiring adisc jockey can be lots of funand an enthusiastic way to cel-ebrate a wedding. DJs can playany music you desire and maybe less expensive than hiring aband or vocalist.

Above All,

Make It Special

Just because a couple wantsto have a tradition weddingwith the “Wedding March”played as the bride and bride-groom make their way downthe aisle does not reflect bor-ing. Not everyone would wantto avoid tradition with electricmusic and a wedding partydancing down the aisle. But themain goal is that the couplemakes the wedding trulymeaningful and displays theirlove in a melody to themselvesand those in attendance.

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Opening wedding gifts –

whether at a shower or

luncheon or after the

wedding – is always fun and

exciting; almost like

Christmas. Each gift received

requires a thank-you note.

This is a must do!

Getting and staying

organized is a first step in

deciding that the task isn’t un-

surmountable. Do yourself a

big favor. When you gather

wedding guests’ names and

addresses to send your

invitations, save that list. Make

a copy and stash it in a desk

drawer or other place that is

easily accessible. Before you

open gifts, get the list and

record each gift next to the

giver’s name and address.

In getting started, set up a

designated area for writing

those thank-you notes. Have

plenty of thank-you notes on

hand and purchase quality

pens. Roller-balls write much

smoother than the less

expensive supermarket

variety that can leave a big ink

blob on your stationery.

Traditionally, thank-you notes

are written in blue or black

ink.

Don’t attempt to write all

the thank-you notes at one

setting. If possible, write your

wedding thank- you notes as

soon as gifts start arriving.

Etiquette rules state that

thank-you notes should be

sent within two weeks of the

arrival for gifts received

before the wedding. After the

wedding, notes should be

mailed within a month after

returning from your

honeymoon. If you don’t live

in a perfect world, if you get

them all written within two

months of your wedding day,

you will be happy and so will

the gifters.

It is more meaningful if you

write a few words about the

gift so the person will know

that you actually know which

gift was sent. If the gift was

money, mention how you plan

to use it.

Once the note is sent,

place a check mark beside the

guest’s name on your list so

you won’t have to wonder six

months down the road if you

actually sent the thank-you.

And while you are writing

those thank-you notes,

remember, you should also

thank your attendants to let

them know how much you

appreciated their efforts and

support on your behalf. A

note and a small gift should be

sent to anyone who houses

or entertains out-of-town

wedding guests. Others you

need to send a note to

include those who assisted

you before, during or after

your wedding; i.e. the

neighbor who accepts

delivery of your gifts when

you are at work; the cousin

who supervises the parking at

the reception; and most

importantly, your parents or

whoever is hosting your

wedding.

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Courtesy of ~ weddings.emilypost.comEmily Post is a registered trademark of the Emily Post Institute

ItemM or O

(mandatory or optional)

Cost

Attendants

Accommodations

Bridesmaids’ Luncheon

Ceremony Fees

Church, Synagogue or other location fee

Organist’s Fee

Cantor/Vocalist/ instrumentalist fee(s)

Flowers

Ceremony

Reception Bridal Bouquet

Corsages

Boutonnieres

Gifts

Bride’s gifts for attendants

Groom’s gifts for attendants

Bride’s gift for groom

Groom’s gift for bride

Honeymoon costs

Invitations/Enclosures

Announcements

Calligraphy

Postage

Ceremony Program

Legalities

Marriage License

Health/physical/blood test fees

Photography

Engagement photographs

Wedding photographer

Videographer

Column 1 Total: $

ItemM or O

(mandatory or optional)

Cost

Carry Over Column 1 Total: $

Reception

Location

Food / beverage expenses (per-person cost)

Music

Reception favors (per-person cost)

Wedding cake

Transportation/Parking

Limousine for bridal party

ceremony/reception

Valet parking

necessary)

Trips home during planning (if you live away)

Wedding Attire

Bridal gown

Bridal accessories: shoes, hose, jewelry, etc.

Bride’s ring

Groom’s ring

Beauty costs (hair, nails, makeup)

Wedding Consultant Fees

Miscellaneous

Telephone bills related to planning

Wardrobe costs for wedding related events

Tips (if not included in above costs)

Taxes (if not included in above costs)

Grand Total: $

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• Cappadocia, Turkey, whereyou can sightsee by hot air bal-loon and a former monasterythat’s been turned into thesweetest and chicest cave hotelin the area.

•St Lucia in the Caribbean.What sets this island apart areits lush forests, striking silhou-ette of the Piton mountains (aUnesco site) and adventure op-portunities that range frommountain climbing to snorkel-ing and diving.

• Or try a different kind ofbeach, California’s Big Sur withmajestic cliffs, moody fog andbig waves. Plus, you’re close toinland hiking through redwoodforests and some of thenation’sbest cuisine.

Travel Channel picks sometraditional favorites – such asAcapulco in Mexico (whereJohn and Jackie Kennedy hon-eymooned), St. John in the U.S.Virgin Islands, the Big Island ofHawaii and Las Vegas and WaltDisney World.

Or how about a winter stayin the Rocky Mountains for ski-ing enthusiasts?

Start planning early for yourhoneymoon. First steps are todecide:

• how much time will youhave. Be sure to schedule intravel days, particularly if youare going overseas. If your timeis limited, consider a closer

destination. You want to spendyour time relaxing and enjoyingeach other, not waiting in air-ports or on long flights.

• how much can you spend?It’s best to be conservative.One way to budget is with along-range plan: You can putdown a deposit on a trip pack-age and then pay the remainderas you get closer to the wed-ding, that spreads out the cost.

Martha Stewart suggestssome ways to pick the perfectspot:

• Have the bride andgroom-to-be each write a listof the top five dream destina-tions and compare notes. Youmight find that one place ap-pears on both.

• Or write down a list ofmust-do experiences, then con-sider where to find them.There’s a wide range of prices,too. For example, if you dreamof museums and restaurants inParis, perhaps Chicago with itsart and cuisine scene can de-liver.

• Keep the seasons in mind,in particular if you’re lookingfor outdoor adventure. Manynational parks, such as Yellow-stone, are mostly closed inwinter. Desert destinations maybe unbearable in summer.

• If a cruise is the plan, shopcarefully for a ship that meetsyour personality by checkingcustomer reviews such ascruisecritic.com.

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CATERINGPg. 38.....................................................................Sandra’s CateringPg 47 ............................................................The Painted Cupcake

CIGARSPg. 13 ..........................Belle Meade Premium Cigars & GiftsPg. 46.................................................................On The Run Cigars

CLEANERSPg. 18................................................................Oakwood Cleaners

DENTALPg. 7 .........................................................Ellen Shemancik, D.M.D.

FABRICPg. 39 ............................................................................Textile Fabrics

GIFTS/FLORISTSPg. 13.......................................................................Rebel Hill FloristPg. 35............................................................Dillard’s (Green Hills)Pg. 38 ......................................................................A. Holiday & Co.Pg. 44................................................................................ReCreationsPg. 49 ........................................Belle Meade Plantation & Gifts

JEWELRYPg. 17..............................................Brentwood Jewelery & Gifts

MUSIC/ENTERTAINMENTPg. 45 ................................................................Phyllis Taylor Sparks

REALTORPg. 36-37 ....................CRS Certified Residential SpecialistsPg. 52 ..............................................RE/MAX Elite (Brentwood)

RESTAURANTS /REHEARSAL LUNCHEONS, DINNERSPg. 43 ........................................................Watermark Restaurant

TRANSPORTATIONPg. 11 ...........................................................................Grand AvenuePg. 46..................................................................F.A.D.Ds Party Bus

TRAVEL AGENCIESPg. 9.....................................................................International Travel

WEDDING ATTIREPg. 8 ..................................................................The French ShoppePg. 18 ................................................................Rebecka’s LingeriePg. 21.......................................................................................GoodwillPg. 33.............................................................................Street TuxedoPg. 47 .......................................................................Joy Bridal Studio

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WINES & LIQUORSPg. 5.........................................................Midtown Wine & SpiritsPg. 14.............................................West Meade Wine & LiquorPg. 22 .................................................................Red Spirits & WinePg. 51 ...................................................................Frugal MacDoogal

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