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It’s time to learn a psychic power! Now don’t get to hasty, this isn’t going to be the kind of thing that lets you make wine glasses levitate and fill themselves; as amazing as that would be, this is a distinctively different kind of power.

Fortunately, this is the kind of technique that does an even BETTER job at turning up the heat between you and your man than glasses of wine!

What you’re going to be doing here is an expedition into the world of mental suggestion! You know what the secret is behind most of the successful magicians out there?

A slight of hand is nothing more than suggestion! By creating subtle associations between two things close together in a person’s mind, it can seem as though they’re one in the same!

Aside from playing cards and white doves, would you believe that the power of suggestion is something that can actually be used with your very identity? I’m not kidding! Itmay seem a little bit “meta”, but it’s true; you can basicallybecome a magician with the concept of your own identity to another person.

Am I saying that you’re going to make a man think that you’re someone that you’re not? Of course not! You’re not going to make your man think that you’re anyone besides

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yourself, but what you will be doing is adjusting the presence of yourself to another man.

What we’re able to tackle here is the sweet power of mental projection. It’s not the kind of projection where youcriticize someone in the way that you really think about yourself, but it’s projection in the sense of projecting your image.

You know how a magician can use some fancy smoke and mirrors to make it seem as though they can make their lovely assistant “teleport” to another location?

What you’ll basically be doing is the same thing here, but instead of literally teleporting your own body, what you’ll be sending off is your literal impression within the man’s mind!

Remember, the physical body alone is not what makes up an entire person! This means that your physical appearance won’t be the only thing to focus on in terms of attraction. When you’re faced with another person, the “type” of person that they are is what distinguishes them from just being another warm body.

The type of person that you are is what creates your identity, and it is that very identity that man truly falls in LOVE with instead of just being attracted to them as a “sexy” or “hot”. When you feel something because of a

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person’s identity, you are left with the mental impact that the person’s identity projects out into the world!

Every single person that we know of, be they a person close to us or a complete stranger, leaves an image in our minds.

When a person isn’t around, the image of them is what we have in order to break down just what type of person that they are. When two people fall in love, that means that they have developed idealistic images of one another in their minds.

So now do you understand why I mentioned the example of a magician? Without even needing to be right next to your man, you can make it so that he always feels your presence because of the impact that your identity has made on his mind! You won’t really be playing a crafty “trick” at all, because it will really just be a matter of the fact that he remembers you!

The mental image is more important than the physical appearances! If you can create a strong mental image of yourself in a high-quality man, he’s going to become attracted to your basic essence.

When a man has become interested in your essence, then simply thinking about you is going to make him feel happy in a way that looks can never match!

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Now try to compare this a woman who can only make an impact on a man in an aesthetic sense. The man might be blown away by a complete smoke show, with 10/10 assets in every category from busy to backside, but what if there’snothing more?

If a man can’t draw anything from a woman’s essence, his attraction to her isn’t going to be the same as it would be to a mental projection! The physical projection creates lust and fixation, but it doesn’t really create a sense of love andadoration.

The strongest art of attraction is one that COMBINES a slight dash of physical contact with with a strong mental projection!

What basically happens is that the emotional aspect of things is empowered more than the physical things alone, and this what creates the kind of relationship that man truly loses sleep over. This is the kind of attraction to a woman’s true value.

Now I have to throw in a disclaimer! Looks certainly do have a bit of value in the art of attraction, so I’m not tellingyou to give up washing your hair and brushing your teeth. The fact of the matter is that your looks will PALE in comparison to the massive appreciation that your existence has a on a man who loves the mental image you

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project into his mind.

To put things in a little bit more detail, what we’re working with here is some classic positive reinforcement! Since the beginning of time, positive reinforcement has been the waythat human beings have determined what things should and shouldn’t be around them in order to ensure their survival!

Do you know why positive reinforcement works so well? Through positive reinforcement, we ‘”learn” that certain things give us pleasure and other things give us pain from an early age! We are programmed to want more of the pleasant things and less of the painful things! When you positively reinforce your image, the man simply wants more of you.

When it comes down to it, when a man truly wants something, he basically loses the ability to rationalize the source of that want.

He might be able to make some guesses as to why it makes him feel the way that he does, but at the end of theday, all that will matter is that he’ll know that a part of himthat can’t be argued with will want what it wants.

It it sounds too good to be true, then don’t worry - this is alittle bit more involved than just being around your man willy nilly, so don’t think I’m telling you that it won’t take

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any effort at all! There’s more than a few techniques you can use in order to make sure that you’re able to pull this off smoothly and effectively!

The first angle that we’re going to cover in order to get thisnailed down is the memory angle. Just about everything in the world can invoke the mental image of another person, but few things invoke an image more powerfully than a simple memory.

Obviously, what we want to do in this case is to superimpose the POSITIVE memories over the negative memories!

This is basically a literal interpretation of “out with the bad,in with the good”. It’s not as though you have to smack your man over the head with a frying pan to give him amnesia, because we’re not looking to make him forget thenegative things.

All that we’re looking to do here is make him focus on the positive memories to a higher degree than the not-so-positive ones.

By taking the perspective that you don’t want to make the man completely forget about the negative memories, you’re not going to be like those women who fall into denial about mistakes.

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All of the mistakes we make are the fuel for our good decisions, and that’s exactly what’s led you to reading this lesson right here in the very first place!

If you’ve been beating yourself up for something like a little fender bender in his car, or getting a little bit fired up over something that may not have been world-ending, this is an announcement that you don’t have to give it any more power over you!

The fact that you still have the chance now to work on yourrelationship means that you can still make a brilliant future.

So what are some of the things that you can say in order to make those positive memories pop out a little bit more than the negative memories?

The things that you can say are literally endless and would take more time than there is in one human life to over in entirety! Luckily, I’ve put together some solid examples here that you could adjust and use in your personal life.

One of the easiest things that you might be able to bring up in order to create a positive memory would be the very first time that the two of you ever met! For example:

“Babe, do you remember meeting for the first time? As soon as you walked into the room, I just remember feeling

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like I got the wind knocked out of me. I couldn’t stop thinking that you just had no right to look so good!

“I had no idea back then that your face would become one of my favorite things in the world to see every day, but I just knew that I seriously liked it. It was more than just looking at a hot guy, it was like looking right into my future. I thought I might have been crazy back then for thinking so much about you back then, but I’m glad that the craziness turned out to be mutual.”

“Even though we’ve been together for more than just a little white now, I can still stay that you are easily one of the things in my life that never gets any less enjoyable. Everything from your touch to your light kisses gives me butterflies,just like the very first time that we every met.”

“Honestly, I have to say that it’s a good thing you’re not a drug that I could take. I know that I would have gotten addicted on the very first day that I took you! Since that first hit that I got of you, it’s been impossible for me to quit you.”

“Not matter how many times that I see you, it feels like I’m seeing you for the very first time again, every single time that we meet! I remember that shock I got on the gotthe very first time that we came together, and I can’t believe that it still hasn’t worn off to this very day.”

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Can you see the common denominator between all of theselines? Each of these lines is a winner because of the same thing: they each reference the past and tie it into your company! By mentioning the way that he makes you feel ingreat detail, it’s going to make him imagine the same things that you mention feeling.

Mentioning the past is seriously going to deepen the amount of detail with which he can connect to you! Because you link back to the the day that you first meet, it’s going to basically be like sending his mind back in time!As you send his mind back to a place in the far-flung past, he’s going to imagine the sound, smells, sights and tastes of that day that you refer to.

While he’s imagining all of the sensory elements of the time that the two of you first linked up, he’s going to be in the kind of mode that makes it easier for him to empathizewith your words!

Every time that you bring up something that happened in the past, you’ll basically be reinforcing the feeling that you got from those old times! Focusing on a bad memory woulddefinitely be counterproductive, but focusing on the good memories will be an extremely powerful way to strengthen the relationship!

Why is it that the relationship can be strengthened just by mentioning something that happened in the past? The reason is that when you attached a past event to a positive

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memory, it’s basically like you’re refreshing the memory. We naturally get a little less affected by positive things after repeated exposure, but this is like renewing those things all over again!

Now even though you’re not literally in the same time and place as those same positive memories that you mentioned, thinking about them is going to make your manseriously focus on the mental image that you have of him. Every time your make think about a past memory and a pleasant sensation, you’ll have made a powerful mental projection right into his mind!

This beings us back to the idea of positive conditioning! When you positively condition him to the thought of past memories between the two of you, it’s going to make him want to experience that feeling more and more!

Can you see the kind of amazing formula that this is yet? When your man gets more and more positively conditionedto your memories, it’s going to make him want to feel more of those memories! Making him want to experience those memories more and more often will result in him seeking out your company more often, leading to the creation of new memories!

The reason that we’re able to use this kind of technique is because of the existence of the subconscious brain. The subconscious brain, even though it’s technically beneath the conscious brain, is the brain that really calls all of the

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shots! No matter what we might consciously decide, at the end of the day, it all comes back to our subconscious will!

No matter what the personality or background of your guy might be, making him feel a positive sensation in connection to his memories of meeting you is going to positively condition his subconscious brain to want more and more of that those memories in the future!

Once again, you don’t have to use these lines word-for-word in order to get the effect that you’re after - dishonesty isn’t the objective here! What we’re looking to do here is honestly bring your man back to position that he’s going to have the least personal defenses and the most personal attachment.

Think of any moment in the past that your man has made you feel fantastic, and capitalize on it. You don’t need to use super-flowery words in order to make this work, you just have to make it honest and descriptive. You could either do this in-person or even in a text (or a hand-writtenletter), but either way, this is something that gets us results.

When you really get down to it, all we’re doing here is really accelerating a natural process that would happen whether or not we actually did it consciously. Since the memories we have with a man are memories we share, it means there’s a good chance that he would remember them on his own even if we never brought them up! There

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is no guarantee, though.

We’re not lying to him or manipulating him, but we’re basically unlocking the power of latent memories already inhis mind and turning them into leverage for the health of the relationship. Speak to any other relationship counselor in the world, and they’ll tell you that focusing on the good memories is one of the best ways to improve the relationship’s lifespan!

As a matter of fact, speak to any specialist on happiness in the world, and they’ll probably tell you the same thing as well. The memories that we have of things gone by are there for a reason. Subconsciously, we have a desire to keep those positive memories inside of us as a constantly sort of pleasure for as long as possible.

Making your man re-encounter the positive shared memories that the two of you have, and drawing pleasure out of them, is really nothing more than satisfying the natural latent urges of his unconscious mind!

Now of course, this doesn’t actually even need to be limited to the memories of the time that the two of you met for the very first time!

The memories that you can use in order to unlock a positive wave of emotion inside of your man can be of virtually anything that puts a smile on your face! It doesn’t

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matter if that certain thing is huge or small, as long as it happened.

It could even be something as casual as the time that you two first shared something like popcorn together, the first time that you went out on a movie, or your very first insidejoke. As long as the man can trail back the memory to a point in time that has made the two of you very happy, youcan use it in order to make this mental domino effect towards stronger love.

The experiences that he recalls might not literally be changed, but at the same time, you will be adjusting them in a way. The memories that we can access aren’t literally gone when we don’t think of them, but dormant. When dormant, they aren’t filling us with the same kinds of feelings that they would if they were active.

The way that you’re adjusting the man’s memories isn’t really by making him think of something different, but more like you’re changing those latent memories in his mind from a dormant state to a reactivated state.

Sometimes the memories inside of a person can be dormant forever! Memories that stay dormant won’t be able to help any couples relationship, no matter how positive and grand those memories might be! By adjusting these memories to make this active once again, you’re initiating a relationship recovery process that not everyone is aware exists!

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The more that you go through with through with this little mental projection technique, the more he’s going to keep on seeking out the creation of different positive memories! The more positive memories that you make, the longer thelifespan of the actual relationship will be! The longer that the relationship lasts, the more often you can use this technique.

So you see now, once you’ve put this technique into effect,you’ll basically have created something that is completely self-sustaining! Creating a positive mental image to projectinto your man’s mind will be like spinning a never-ending wheel of attraction within your man that never grows stale.

The natural course of a relationship means that it generallyexpires when two people have become too familiar, but when you do this, you will have basically figured out a littleloophole that extends the lifespan by an indefinite amount!You’ll have a never-ending reservoir of memories to bring back to the surface and keep things fresh as long as you have them.

The way that you do this is powerful because of the fact that it doesn’t require you to aggressively push you man into feeling more for you. Too many woman make the mistake of trying to bargain with their men in order to manufacture a bond, but these kinds of things don’t need to be manufactured in the very first place at all!

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Women who don’t know about the techniques that I’m sharing here will be unknowingly sabotage their relationships by looking for something that’s already there!As long as the unconscious mind has a serious appreciationfor your mental image, that appreciation can always be recovered and unlocked once more!

The reason that memories are so effective at reigniting your man’s affection is due to the fact that he doesn’t feel like you’re telling him to do anything in first place. A man hates nothing more than the feeling that his free will is being compromised, and so naturally, he’s going to be the most affectionate to you when he gets the idea that everything is completely within his control!

Giving a man the kindle to re-experience the passion of hisown emotions will be acknowledging his natural entitlementto have free will and power over his feelings. You’ll be taking an active hand in nurturing the relationship, but at the same time, you’ll be making it so that he doesn’t see it as any kind of imposition on his natural agency.

Feel free to repeat this technique to your hearts delight, and after enough time has passed, you’ll probably come to find that it’s become completely second-nature to you! You won’t even need to think about any of these hypothetical scenarios before you naturally reach out to them and use them to rediscover those amazing memories for the first time all over again.

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The great thing about the subconscious mind, compared to the conscious mind, is that it’s a lot more difficult for the subconscious mind to forget anything in comparison. The conscious mind requires effort in order to recall the things inside of it, because it’s kind of like a large bucket that has tons of tiny holes in the bottom.

The subconscious mind, however, is like a bottomless ocean that never lets anything go. Sometimes it may seemlike the subconscious mind has less in it than the consciousmind, but that’s not true.

The subconscious mind is like an impossibly massive body of still and calm waters, so large that it’s nearly impossible to take note of everything that’s inside. The porous bucket of the conscious mind, though smaller, is easier to observe because of its smaller size and tendency to swish around restlessly - this means that the things inside are easier to access.

If you think this sounds like an incredible power so far, then you’ll love what’s coming next - we haven’t even really covered where the full power of this technique really extends! In addition to projecting a constant positive imageinto your man’s mind through the power of memories, you can enhance this feeling within him by adding in a light physical touch.

With just a little bit of physical contact, you can accelerate the speed with which that never-ending wheel of attraction

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spins in your favor. Let me just demonstrate with a little example here.

“Babe, do you remember the first time we held hands? I know it might seem a little bit weird for me to bring it up right now out of nowhere, but crosses my mind all of the time. Every time I hold hands with you, it fees like I’m holdit for the very first time all over again.”

Now once you’ve done this, that entire process that we’ve been talking about with the sensory experience enhancing the pleasure goes into play! What you can do in addition tothat, however, is to then actually do something like holdinghis hand after you mention the memory of doing it!

As soon as you make that relevant physical contact, you’re basically going to cement the memory that the man had byadding in the final piece to the sensory experience! He’ll bere-experiencing the sights, sounds, smells and recollectionsof of the tastes associated with the memory, and then you’ll be adding touch to complete the entire formula!

Are you familiar with the concept of “show, don’t tell”? It’s a bit of literary advice that people who really know how to write will tell you really works. It’s about minimalism, getting right to the point. Instead of describing a giant chocolate cake to the reader, you use the most relatable words possible to literally put their face in that metaphorical cake.

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Well, when you give your man a little touch in order to match the memory that you have of touching him in the past, it’s like the equivalent of showing instead of telling! The delivery of the message is ten times better!

We’ve basically already talked about how bringing up old memories with pleasant feelings can transition into making more memories in the future, and when you add in touch, you basically introduce the missing link that brings it all together.

You see, when you just give the man a little touch, you’re basically making his sensory experience of the past get dragged into the present! Your mental image will have an influence on his experience of the past, present, AND the future!

After you’ve done this for a long-enough period of time, you’ll basically have made it so that so your mental projection is like an OMNIPRESENT factor in your man’s mind! No matter where he goes or what he thinks, it will become something that he finds capable of being tied back to you!

Making your man feel your presence in just about about every facet of his life is something that a desperate womandreams of, but she can never actually achieve it because ofhow abrasive and off-putting her approach is! By going about thins in this way, you’ll basically be able to make it so that your man doesn’t feel scared off by your desire to

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get close to him.

Now so long as you can draw some pleasure out of paying attention to the past, it will keep you from getting too thirsty for his constant presence. Focusing on the memories will be like a buffer against any strain you may feel when it isn’t around, keeping you from becoming restless or needy!

While the memories of your man keep you comforted in hisperiodic absence, you can focus on diving into your hobbiesand spending time with your other friends. No matter what it is that you’re doing on your own time, the fact that you’ve put a mental projection into your man’s mind will basically make it so that he feels your presence from a distance too!

Projecting your mental image into your man’s mind won’t just be a way to strengthen the bond between the two of you when you’re together, but it will basically stabilize the link that the two of you have with one another as people ingeneral!

People are who connected by their unconscious minds and mental images don’t even need to be next to each other in other to feel the love; this is what it means to have a legitimately stable relationship!

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The link between you and your man will be made of the kind of stuff that doesn’t need to be overcompensated for by grand gestures of expensive dates.

Speaking of grand gestures and expensive dates, this technique will basically make you need them a little bit less. Now I’m not trying to save that occasional 5-star sorbet isn’t just what the doctor ordered now and then, butI am saying that you’ll be able to find more pleasure with less.

Just like how physical attraction still has some effect, extravagant and fancy things also have some appeal - bothof these things will ultimately lack the complete impact that you can make with positive mental projection! Positivemental projection basically takes all of the amazing feelingsthat you get from the more obvious things and stores themup.

When enough of the little positive memories that you have from everyday experiences has built up to high-enough volume, you’ll basically be able to turn just about every little meal into something on the same level as a 5-start sorbet.

You can make every uneventful day turn into the most memorable, dreamlike experience that a couple could hopefor.

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I know it might sound like an exaggeration now, and when those things do happen, chances are that it won’t actually seem to be the best time of your life every single time; that’s not the point! The idea here to be able to wield such a mastery of drawing out the highest level of pleasure fromyour memories, making every single one a treasure.

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