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Reb. 13.7, 17-19 - Pastor Wayne Rogers
Parents
often tell
their children
that they
must
discipline
them because, as parents, they must
obey
God, and
God
commands thelTl
to discipline
their
children.
They
would
be
disobeying
God
not
to discipline them. The children are to ohey God
and God commands them to obey their parents,
I
, 1 1
1 ' ' f
ph. 6:1.
Now
ets
app y 11at same OglC
1
you
will,
to
another issue, the
submission and
obedience of
church members
to those who are
their God-appointed overseers, bishops, elders.
Obedience
to
God, to
Christ,
and
to
the gospel is
fundamental
for
all believers
in the
n ~ w covenant,
I Peter
1:2,
Psalm 110:3.
God
cOlTnTlands you to
submit
to those who rule over you.
Therefore,
you
must
obey and
submit to your church leaders.
Thus, if
you are to ohey God,
just as your children
are to
obey you,
you lTlUst obey
those in
authority
over you
and subnlit
to
them as church leaders.
I
GENERAL
PRlNCIPLES:
A. The Duty of Officer Bearers: They
are
examples,
watch
out
for
your
souls,
and
give
account to God.
t
is their duty:
1 To instruct the members
of
the
church
of
their
duties
to office-bearers.
Titus
2:15, Speak
these
things, exhort, and rebuke ~ w i t h all authority.
Let
no one
despise
you.
2.
To
instruct the members
of
the church that
it
is in
their
interest to
subrnit to
the
oversight
and
shepherding
of their leaders, Heb
13:17,
Obey
those who rule over you, and be submissive, for
they
watch
out for your souls, as those who must
give account.
Let them do
so
with joy and
not
w i t h
grief, for that would
be
unprofitable for you.
B.
The Tyranny
of
Office-bearers:
Great harm
may
be done
by the tyranny of office-bearers
---that
is, when
elders
have assmTled lTlOre authority
than Scripture warrants thenl to assume. See
I Peter 5:1-5.
The duties of church
members
to
their
officers
presupposes
that the officers
are
performing h i l ~ duties
faithfully
and
diligently.
The
nature
of
church
authority
is
spiritual and
moral,
ministerial
and declarative, not
imperial,
magisterial, or legislative.
Jay Adams I ists several principles of leadership i
his
book,
Shepherding God's Flock:
2
1
They
must
exercise
their authority
carefully
b
courageously.
2. They must exercise
true
shepherdly leadersh
t
must be personal and involved; such need for
leadership implies
the
necessity for personal
holiness of example and walk in the Christian lif
3.
They must know and
teach the Scriptures
faithfully
in depth. Leadership
and
authority im
the
need
for shepherds with
biblical knowledge
and wisdOlTl.
4. They
must be
~ w i l l i n g to
support
every plan,
every
program, and
every
administrative
act by
Scriptural principles
(they will
never
be satisfied
by
custom
and tradition alone).
5.
Their
authority must be used w i t h i n the limi
and according
to the teaching
of the vVord
of
Go
which implies the need for
great
discermnent
an
careful judgment by
undershepherds.
6. Their authority and
leadership
are ministeria
Thus it must be exercised in love,
with
care,
and
~ w i t h concern both
for
the welfare of
the
flock an
of
each sheep in
it.
7.
Their authorit:y
must be used
in
His
name
an
for His glory.
C. The
Anarchy
of Church Members: On the
other
hand, more harm has perhaps
come
throughout
church
history by a spirit of anarchy
among
church
members when nlelnbers refuse
the
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The
uty
of hurch Memberd to Elderd
give
proper
respect and subjection to their elders.
t is
only
as office-bearers
discharge
their
duties
within
the
bounds of
Scripture
and when
church
members sublnit to their office-bearers within
the bounds
of
Scripture that this God-given
relationship will
issue
in God-intended blessing.
Jay Adams wrote, Each sheep in
the
flock nUlst
respect and submit to the authority of Christ, and
nUlst recognize
that
all authority that is
exercised
legitinlately within
the
flock is
His authority
...
Therefore, he must
submit
to the
undershepherds
~ w o manage and exercise
oversight
as he would
submit
to Christ i m ~ s e l f so long as they speak
in
accordance
with the Scriptures (cf Heb. 13:17) ....
In submitting to the care and discipline of the
Church
he does so 'in the Lord.' That is to say,
he belongs to a kingdom that is a constitutional
1T1Onarchy.
t
differs, however,
from other
such nlOnarchies in that the
constitution
was
imposed
by the Monarch
Himself, not
for his
own instruction, limitation,
etc.,
but
so
that
every
member of
the
body politic
might
know
the
laws
and ordinances that He
has
ordained. By this
constitution they may judge the actions and the
commands even of
the leaders. vVhile alleg iance is
to Christ
alone,
the terms of
that allegiance
are set
forth in the Scriptures ....
The task of the
leadership
within
the
church,
therefore,
is to declare, to minister
and to
administrate.
There
is no power to legislate.
Every member within the flock nUlst grant to
the
leadership all proper deference and great
respect,3
but
at the
same time Christ has
made
each
member
responsible
to exercise
individual
judgment concerning
the
leadership that he
follows.
That
n'leans that the leaders must teach
each member
adequately
enough that he
may
judge whether
those things
that
they
command are
truly in accord with the constitution
(cf especially
the
powerful
word of the Apostle Paul
on
this
question in Acts
17:11).
Yet,
if
a member disagrees with
the decisions
of
the leadership,
and because of conscience
before
God
finds that he must refuse to
submit
to the orders that they give, he must
do even
that
submissively (i.e., in a proper
spirit that
acknowledges
the
position and authority that
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Christ has granted to
the
leaders of
the
church).
Moreover, he must recognize
the
grave danger in
which he
may
be
placing
himself by such a refus
It is
possible otherwise
that:
1.
He may be
found
be opposing Christ
himself
2.
He
may be showin
disrespect for Christ, by disregarding the authori
that He
invested in His
officers
c
I Thess. 5:12,
13 .
Because of these dangers, only after great care
and willingness to be taught and corrected by th
leadership as they explain
the
Word of God to
hinl, may
he
refuse to
submit
to them. And
then
may he do
so
only if he
is
thoroughly convinced
their failure to base their case upon the
Scriptur
He
may
not
refuse
to submit to
authority becaus
of personal
differences
or because of
conflicts
of any other sort. He nUlst
remember
always
that
the
authority to which
he
submits is not
theirs
but
rather
is
the
authority
of
Christ.
And
pastors, difficult as
it may
seem to
them,
must
teach
this
submission
to
their members.
Too
man
congregations
have been
split because
members
had not the foggiest notion that such submission
is required by God.
Even
in
those rare instances in which
he
may
fi
himself
basically at odds with the leadership of
the church, a member must
be
careful
about the
manner in which he differs. He may not
do
so in
rebellious or independent spirit.
Such difference
must be
stated
in a
spirit of sorrow and with
a
vl'illingness to work toward biblical agreement
(Phil. 4:1 'Be
of
one mind in the Lord.').
(Shepherding
God's
Flock, Volume Three -
Pastoral
Leadership,
P R
Pub.
Co., 1975, Chap
2,
Leadership
in the
Church, pp
13-15).
II. PREREQUISITES FOR
RENDERING
DUE
SUBMISSION
TO ELDERS
A.
Respect
for
church government
as
an
ordinance of Christ.
1. 'Vhen
elders
have been duly qualified, electe
and installed,
they
are the
Christ-appointed
executors of
His
will and rule as bounded by
Scripture.
Hence,
rebellion
to their authority
rightly
discharged
is
rebellion against the
authority of
Christ.
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2. If church members are not
convinced
of the
above-mentioned principle
and only submit to
their
elders
when
it is expedient, rather than
submitting
on
the basis
of
principle,
sooner
or
later such
submission
would break
down
under
trial.
B.
Respect
for
those
invested
with
office-bearing
responsibilities.
1. It is for this reason that
the
spiritual
requirements for
the
elder are so stringent. As
John
Brown has ably said, "No man
ought
to
become a member
of
a church
where the
office
bearers, as a body, do not command his respect for
their
personal
qualifications.
He sports with
his
own
edification
if
he does so."
2.
This
does not mean that we must "like" every
personal characteristic of elders, for this may be
a
matter
of
personal
taste;
but, they
must be
such
men who, by
their
life and gifts, command our
respect.
III
SPECIFIC REQUIREMENTS OF
CHURCH
MEMBERS TO
THEIR ELDERS.
A. Church members should treat their pastors
with
distinguishing honor,
esteem, and
love I Tim.
5:17,1 Thess. 5:12, 13, Acts 28:15.
B. Church members should have a most delicate
and tender
regard
for
the
reputation
of
their
pastors. We must
seek
to
preserve
the dignity
and respect
due to office-bearers by obeying
the
injunction of 1 Tim. 5:19,
Do
not
receive an
accusation against
an
elder except from two
or
three
witnesses."
C.
Church members owe their
pastors attendance
upon their
ministry.
1. Submission to the elders as teachers this
involves:
a.
Being
present
when their instruction is
given.
If
it is required of teaching el del's to be
prepared
to
spread
out before the flock
of
God
the
doctrines and
duties of
Scripture, the promises
and
the precepts, the warning and the comforts
of
the
Gospel, then it is the duty of
the
sheep
to
be present
when
such pasture
is
set before
them;
or to
change
the figure,
it
is
the duty of
the family to be
gathered
at the table when it is
abundantly furnished. Just as surely as elders a
sinning when they are not adequately
prepared
for this task,
unless
providentially
hindered
in
their preparation,
so church members are
sinnin
when they are not
present,
unless providentially
hindered.
b.
Being present
with
a proper attitude.
This
attitude consists of
GOD CONSCIOUSNESS
(Acts 10:33), TEACHABLENESS (Acts 17:11
James 1:21) and an attitude
of
ACTIVE
DISCERNMENT
(Acts 17:11b).
c. Being submissive to that Word which they
minister in
His Name.
2. Submission
To
The
Elders
As Superintenden
and Rulers, Heb. 13:17, I Cor. 16:15, 16. "To obe
means
to
heed
their
words,
honor their
persons
and love
the Christ whose bond-servants they
ar
t means to labor
with
them for the
peace
of the
church,
the
glory of God and the proclamation
the
gospel, even when
this requires
us to
humbl
ourselves
and subdue our natural
impulses."4
a.
When the elders act as a body seeking to
preserve
the
external order, peace, and purity
of
the church, they are to
be
respected
and submit
to in the discharge
of
these duties.
b.
'Vhen
acting as individuals
in watching
over the souls
of
the flock,
their
exhortations,
admonitions,
inquiries,
and
warnings are not
be
regarded simply as those of
another
believer, bu
as men invested
with
peculiar responsibility and
authority
for
this
task
D. Church members owe their pastors
earnes
prayer. 2 Cor. 1:11, I Thess. 5:25, Rom. 15:30-33,
Eph.
6:19-20, Phil. 1:19,20, Col. 4:2,
3
2
Thess
3
2, Heb. 13:18, 19, Acts 12:1-19.
E Church members should encourage other
to
attend
upon
the ministry
of
their
pastors.
Psa
122.1, Let
us
go up to the house of
the
Lord," i
an invitation which they should often
address
to
the
people of
the world.
F.
Church Inembers
should
make known
to
their Pastors anything of importance that occurs
within
the scope
of
their observation
or
the cou
of their
experience
relating
to
the
church
and
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congregation which they
have first
tried
by their
own
personal
efforts to remove. Mat. 18:15ff.,
I Cor. 1:11.
G.
Church members should
zealously cooperate
in all strategies
of
usefulness
proposed
by the
pastors,
whether
for the benefit of
their own
local
congregation
in
particular,
or the
welfare
of the
church
and
the
world at large.
"We must try to get all the
members of
the
Church
practically interested in the
work
of Christ, for
'none of us liveth to himself.' t was said of a colt,
'The Lord hath
need of
him.' Much more may this
be said of those who profess to be living
members
of Christ's body.What
each
should do will depend
on what each can do, for 'she hath done what
she could' was the Master's word of approval. 'As
we have opportunity is the
rule laid down
for us.
What
a change
would
appear
on
the
Church and
the world if
each
professing
Christian
were doing
sOlnething -
something
for
Christ
- even
though
it were
a very little Might not the wilderness
soon
be
turned
into
a fruitful field? ... Let
us
engage
the
hearts
of our
people
in the
cause
of missions
at home and abroad ... 'Do all the good
you
can
in
this
world, and
make
as little
noise about it
as
possible'
....
To be occupied with our
little selves
is not God's way of
making us either healthy or
happy." David Dickson, The Elder
and
His Work,
pg.59-63.
H.
The
pastor(s) deserves
generous
financial
support.
Gal. 6:6, I Cor. 9:7, 14,2 Tim. 2:4, 1
Tim. 4:13, 15, 5:17.
1. Ruling
elders
should be supported
to the
degree
necessary for them to carry on
their
ministry
whether
in
terms
of
general
financial
support in
order for
them to
take
time to
away
from their
vocation to
conduct
ministry, provision
of books, literature, conferences,
ministry
visitation, etc.
2.
Teaching
Elders
who give themselves full
time
to
the work of
the ministry
should be supported
by the church.
Jay Adam writes,
Listen
to Paul as
he
sets forth
the
base
salary for a minister: 'Now
let
him who
is
instructed
in the Word share everything
good
that
he has
with
the
one who instructs
him' (Gal.
3
the
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6:6).
In that
command (note, it is not optional for
congregations to do
or
not do
so) you
find
the
fundamental
principle
of
payment
- the minister
of
the Word is to receive a salary commensurate
with that of the members of the congregation. H
is
not to
live on less
than
they do. Put positively,
as Paul does, he is to enjoy all
the
good
things th
they
do.
While,
as we shall see,
he
may
be
paid
more than the average of his members' earnings,
congregations must
not
pay
him
less - without
sin."
The Journal of
Modern Ministry,Volume
1,
Issue 2, Fall 2004, pp. 8-9.
The question is how do we determine the
cost
o
living for a
working mall with
a growing family?
Do we take
into
account the cost of
Christian
school tuition? Planning for a college education
for children? Obviously, the congregation doesn'
want
the
pastor's wife to have to contribute to
th
family income.
Should
they
seek
to determine
the average income of the
church?
But,
suppose
the church
contains
a high percentage of laid-
off
factory workers, farm families
who
have been
losing money,
or
retired pensioners? If the
pasto
is to
be paid
the average wage of
the
congregatio
in that case, he might have to take a loss
The OPC Presbytery
of
The Midwest has
developed
a "Policies and Guidelines on Pastors'
Salaries." It states that certainly the minister
should be paid enough to meet the needs of his
family.
The
apostle Paul,
in encouraging
the Gree
churches
to give
generously
for poor Christians
in Judea, states that God's
purpose
is
that there
may be equality"
2
Cor. 8:12-15), for which he ci
the
example of God's provision of manna in the
wilderness. As
the Lord provided
miraculously f
His people
in such
a way that
each
had
enough,
so
He
would provide equitably for His people
in
this age through the labors of their mvn hands a
their
generosity toward
each
other. Applying
this
principle
to the
support
of
those who get their
living by
the
Word
1
Cor. 9:14), a
minister shou
be paid at least enough to live at the accepted
standard of
the congregation
which
he is serving
A typical form
of
a call to
the ministry
in
Presbyterian
circles
reads
thus:
The
Church being on
sufficient grounds well
satisfied
of
the ministerial qualifications of you,
and having good hopes from our
knowledge of your labors that your ministrations
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in
the Gospel
will be
profitable to
our
spiritual
interests, do earnestly
call
you
to undertake the
pastoral
office in said
congregation, promising
encouragen'lent and obedience in the Lord. That
you may be free from
worldly cares
and avocations,
we
hereby promise and oblige ourselves to pay you
the sum of
a
year
in
regular payments,
and other
benefits
such as
manse,
retirement,
insurance, vacations, moving expenses, etc. during
the
time
of your being and continuing the
regular
pastor
of this church.
In other
words,
the goal is to free him from all
worldly care so that he can
devote
himself fully
to
the
ministry. The minister is
not
so much paid
a
salaTy
which is compared with
other
men's
salaries, but he is
supported
so that he
can
devote
himself
entirely to
the ministry
of
the word, free
from
the cares
of
the
world,
to the
degree
that he
can
and
should
be.
The OPC Presbytery of the Midwest Policies and
Guidelines
on
Pastors' Salaries addresses other
practical
issues
in the
support
of
ministers:
1. Inability to give full support: If a congregation
is not able to give its pastor full support ..
then:
a. The words that you may be free from worldly
care and
employment
should not be used in the
call.
This
is
only honest.
b.
The
call
should
explicitly permit
the pastor
to
supplement
his income through outside
employment
(perhaps
specifying permitted
hours
of
outside employment,
though
this may
be best
left to
the
discretion of the
session). Note, however,
that
the
presbytery does not
recommend,
but only
acquiesces to
this arrangement
in
cases where
there
seem
to be no reasonable alternatives.
Granted
that pastors may
be
scripturally
free
to
labor outside the ministry for
their
ovvn
support,
this may
not be wise in most cases. That model
"tentmaker," the apostle Paul,
did
not
lead
about
a wife;"
but
Peter,
who did, received support from
the
churches (implied by I Cor. 9:5 in context). A
self-supporting pastor will constantly
be pressured
by
the
competing demands
of his
outside
job, the
needs of the church
and
the needs
of
his family,
and all
three
plus the
pastor himself
are likely to
suffer. In
addition,
in
areas
experiencing recession
it may not be possible for a pastor to find adequ
supplemental
employment.
2.
Some
things a congregation should
understand:
a.
A minister lives
on
a fixed monthly income
which
he
may have less freedom
than
others
in
church
to influence. For example, the congregat
may
feel
strongly
that their
pastor's
wife should
not
work outside
the
home,
although the wives
in the congregation
do.
If
the pastor
takes
supplemental employment, members may feel
he is not earning
the
salary they are
paying
hinl
(assuming such employment is available). Most
ministers
have no
equity or
capital
to borrow h'o
or to fall back on in case of emergency. If they
are
paid just enough to get by on from month
to
month, they cannot save for
the
future.
b. A
minister
depends on the giving
of
the
congregation,
but is
usually
very reluctant ever
to express
any
dissatisfaction with what he is
receiving. Generally,
if
he does, it is serious
c. If the
church
provides a manse, the ministe
is building no equity toward housing in his
retirement.
This makes provision
for retirement
the more essential.
d. A retirement plan is not a luxury, unless the
church intends
to
continue supporting a minist
by continuing
his
salary
after
he is no longer ab
to serve.
e. Good medical coverage is a necessity. If the
church
does
not
provide
for it (despite high
premiums), it may
end up shouldering the burd
of staggering medical expenses
and
passing
that
burden to
the
rest of
the
churches of the
presbytery and denomination.
3.
Some questions
a
congregation should
ask itself:
Do we
place
a biblically high value on the
minis
of
God's
,ard?
In
a crunch, which
comes
first: giving the pasto
a good wage
or
making improvements on the
building?
Is the ministry seen as a sort of second-rate
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occupatIOn ....
Do SOlne feel that it is more spiritual for
ministers
and
their
families to
be
poor?
Do
some argue for holding
down
the
pastor's
salalj',
but
then feel good about giving him various
kinds
of charity?
What
is the value of the training, experience, and
education (equal to that
of
a lawyer)
of
a minister?
Do members
of
the
congregation
tithe?
Do some fail
to
tithe,
pleading their own
financial
squeeze, but
then spend
money on personal items
that
the
pastor
cannot
afford?
vVould members of the
congregation
be willing to
change
jobs and move their families to a strange
place,
if
they
were offered
the
salary package
they
are proposing for a new pastor?
'\Till the proposed salary package enable a family
to live at the standard of living that is reasonably
hoped for by working people
with
families
in your
community?
Will
having our
minister and
his family live
within
the income
we propose
commend
or detract
from the reputation of our
congregation
in
this
community?
IV FINAL
CONCLUSIONS
AND
OBSERVATIONS:
A FAILURE ON THE PART
OF CHURCH
MEMBERS to render
submission
to their
elders
as teachers and
rulers
must
not
be knowingly
tolerated in the church. See
I Thess. 5:14, II Thess.
3:6
and
14.
Following is an excerpt from Samuel Miller,
The
Duties
Which
The Church
Owes
To
Ruling
Elders, a
chapter in
his
book, The Ruling
Elder
(Edited) :
If
they
(Ruling Elders)
are
the spiritual Rulers
of the
Church,
and bound to perform daily,
and
with fidelity and zeal, the duties which belong to
this
station;
it
is
evident that the lnembers of
the
Church
are bound to recognize
thenl
in the same
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character, and to
honor
and treat them as their
spiritual guides.
Were it, then, in the power of the writer of
this volume to
address the
members
of
every
Presbyterian Church
in the
United
States, he
would speak to them in
some
such language as t
following:
CHRISTIAN
BRETHREN, EvelY
consideration
which has been urged to
show
the importance a
duties belonging to the office of
Ruling
Elders,
ought to relnind you of
the
important duties whi
you
owe to them.
1 Office: Remember, at all times,
that
they are
your
ecclesiastical Rulers; Rulers of your
own
choice yet by no means coming to
you
in virtue o
mere human authority; but
in
the name
and
by t
appointment
of the
great
Head of the Church, an
of
course,
the
ministers
of
God to
you
for good.
In
all
your
views
and treatment
of
them, then,
recognize
this
character.
2. Respect and Submission: Obey them in the
Lord,
that
is, for
his
sake,
and
as far as they
bea
rule agreeably to his word.
Esteem
them very
highly in love for their works sake. And follow
them daily
with your
prayers, that God
would
ble
them,
and
make
them a blessing. Reverence them
as your leaders. Bear in mind the importance of
their office, the arduousness of their duties, and
the difficulties with which they have to contend.
Countenance, and
sustain
them in
every
act
of
fidelity;
make
allowance for their infirmities;
and
be not unreasonable in your expectations fl'om
them.
3. Oversight: Many are
ready
to (in)criminate
the
Elders
of the Church, for not taking notice
of particular offences, as speedily, or in such
manner,
as they expect. And this disposition to
find fault is
sometimes
indulged by persons who
have
never
been
so faithful themselves as to give
that information which they
possessed,
respectin
the alleged offences;
or
who, when called upon
publicly to
substantiate
that which they have
privately disclosed, have drawn back, unwilling
to
encounter
the odium
or the pain
of appearing
as accusers, or even its witnesses. Such
persons
ought to be the last to (in)criminate Church
officers for supposed negligence of discipline. C
your Rulers take notice of
that
which never com
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to
their
knowledge? Or can
you
expect them, as
prudent men, rashly to set on foot
judicial
and
public
investigation of things, concerning which
many are ready to whisper in private,
but
none
willing to
speak with
frankness before a
court
of
Christ?
Besides, let it
be
recollected, that the session
of
almost every
Church
is
sometimes
actually
engaged
in investigating cases, in
removing
offences,
and
in
composing
differences, which
many suppose
they are utterly neglecting merely
because they
do
not judge it to
be for edification,
in
all cases, to
proclaim what
they have done, or
are doing, to
the congregation
at large.
4.
Discipline: Your
Elders
will
sometimes be
called -
God
grant that it
may seldom
occur -
but they will sometimes be called to the
painful
exercise of discipline. Be
not
offended
with thelTl
for
the performance of this
duty,
Rather make
the
language
of
the
Psalmist
your own: Let the
righteous smite me, it shall be a kindness:
and
let him reprove me, it shall be an excellent oil,
which
shall not
break my
head." Add not to
the
bitterness of their
official task, by discovering a
resentful
temper, or by indulging
in reproachful
language, in return for their fidelity. Surely the
nature of the
duty
is sufficiently self-denying
and
distressing,
without rendering it more
so
by
unfriendly treatment.
Receive their private
warnings
and
admonitions
with candor
and
affectionate submission. Treat
their
public acts,
however
contrary
to
your
wishes,
with respect and
reverence. f hey
be
honest and pious
men,
can
they do less than exercise the discipline of Christ's
house, against such of
you
as walk disorderly?
Nay if you
be
honest
and pious yourselves,
can
you
do less than approve
of
their faithfulness in
excercising that discipline'? f
you
were aware of
all the difficulties which attend this part of
the
duty ofvour Eldership,
you
would feel for them
more
tenderly,
and judge concerning
them
more
candidly and
indulgently than
you
are
often
disposed
to do. Here you have it in your power, in
a very
important
degree,
to lessen
their
burdens,
and to
strengthen their hands.
5. Visitation:
When
your
Elders
visit your
families, for the
purpose of becoming
acquainted
with them,
and of
aiding the Pastor in
ascertaining
the spiritual state of the flock, remember that it
is
not
officious intrusion. t is nothing more than
their
duty. Receive
them,
not as
if you suspected
them of
having come
as
spies or
busy intruders,
but with respect
and
cordiality. Convince them,
by your treatment, that you are glad to see
them,
that you wish to encourage them
in
promoting t
best interests of the Church;
and
that you
honor
them for
their
fidelity. Give them
an
opportunity
of
seeing
your
children, and
of ascertaining
whether your households are making progress in
the
Christian
life.
Nay
encourage
your
children
to put themselves
in
the way
of the Elders,
that
they
may be
personally known to them,
and may
become the
objects of their affectionate notice,
their occasional exhortation, and
their
pious
prayers. Converse
with
the
Elders
freely, as
with
fathers,
who
have no
greater joy than
to see
you
walking in the truth."
And
ever give them cause,
to retire
under
the pleasing persuasion, that
the
office is
honored,
that
their
benevolent
designs
daily
appreciated, and
that their labors "are
not
vain in the Lord." In short,
as
every good citizen
will make conscience of vindicating the fidelity,
and holding
up the land
of the faithful Magistrat
who
firmly and in'lpartially executes the law of
the land: so every
good
Christian
ought
to feel
himself bound in conscience and honor, as well
in duty to his Lord, to strengthen
the
hands, and
encourage
the
heart
of
the
spiritual Ruler, who
evidently seeks,
in
the fear of God, to
promote th
purity and edification of the
Church.
B. CHURCH
MEMBERS SHOULD
SEEK TO
CULTIVATE
the
positive attitudes enjoined upo
them.
See I Thess. 5:12 thru 13.
(Footnotes)
J This material is largely based upon an outline b
Al Martin,
Samuel
Miller,
John
Angel James, Jay
Adams, David Dickson, etc. See also
The Elders
of the
Church, Lawrence
Eyres,
Chapter
4,
The
Submission Due to Them.
2 Jay Adams, Shepherding God's Flock,
Vol.
3,
Pastoral
Leadership,
P R Pub., 1975, pp. 15-16
Cf. Heb. 13:7, 17, I Thess. 5:12, 13. The respect
enjoined in
these
passages is of the highest leve
4
Edgar
Andrews, A Glorious
High
Throne,
Hebrews, Evang. Press, 2003, p. 509
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