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Serving with Jesus Personal Evangelism Training Seminar
How to Lead Someone to Christ
(Gospel Presentation)
This presentation can be used in any setting – during Bible studies, with the person next to you on a flight, with a friend who does not know Jesus, etc. Adapt it as you see fit, but here are the key elements:
1. Build a conversation with the person. You can use 2 simple methods:
a. F.O.R.T.
• Family (In what area where you raised? Do you have any siblings?
• Occupation (What kind of work do you do? Do you like your job?)
• Religion (What is your religious background? Have you been a [Methodist] all your life? Do you attend church?)
• Testimony (My life before I accepted Christ was… How I become a Christian… My life since becoming a Christian)
b. T.O.P.I.C.S.
• Today’s situation (How was your day?)
• Occupation/Education Background (What job are you involved in? Did you study after high school?)
• Place/Partner/Parents
o Place: Where do you stay? How long have you been there?
o Partner: Are you married? How long? What does your spouse do for a living?
o Parents: Are your parents still alive? How old are they?)
• Interests (What are your hobbies?)
• Current Events (Did you hear about the earthquake in… Did you see what’s happening in… [Avoid political matters that may be divisive])
• Share (your testimony)
2. Say, “Could I ask you a question? If you are uncomfortable answering it, you can just tell me. I feel it is the most important question a person can answer. Do you want to hear the question? (Wait for their answer.) Okay, here it is: If Jesus were to come back tonight or you were to die suddenly, are you assured you have eternal life?”
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If there is a long pause, you can say, “I told you it was a heavy question.” Then you should wait while they ponder its significance. Embrace the silence and don’t be afraid of it. Allow the Spirit to use the quiet to speak to your student’s heart. If they respond that they do have assurance of eternal life, then you will enthusiastically say:
“That’s fantastic! Now, may I ask you another question? Say you go up to the pearly white gates of heaven and before you enter, an angel stops you and says, ‘John, we are so happy that you are here. We have been looking forward to your entrance into heaven for a long time. But before we let you in, we need you to answer a question. Why should God let you enter?’ John, how would you answer the angel’s question?”
This helps to ascertain if they understand the gospel.
Depending on their answer, you will say, “I am glad to hear that you are seeking to live a good life for God,” or “Thank you for such honesty. Most of us would probably be speechless in the face of such a question.” In either case, here is how you respond to anything but the correct answer:
“May I suggest an answer the Bible endorses? We can humbly confess to the angel, ‘I am not worthy to enter heaven, but Jesus came to earth to live a perfect life to die for me on the Cross. I have accepted Him as my Saviour to forgive my sins and I followed Him as my Lord to tell me how to live. It has all been by His grace and this is why I should be allowed to enter.’ Now isn’t this a good answer. The emphasis is on what Jesus has done. We can’t do anything to earn heaven. It is ours as a gift from God. But we are to surrender our lives to Him so that we can be forgiven of our past sins and for the Holy Spirit to enable us to live in harmony with God’s will.
Now you will ask, “John, may I briefly review the reason this answer will be our best ticket into heaven?” When they say, “Yes,” you should do the Gospel Presentation.
The Gospel Presentation (3 L’s)
1. The Traffic LIGHT Illustration
Let’s say you leave your home tonight. You’re tired, hungry and anxious to get to your destination, so when you get to the intersection you skip the red light. The next thing you know, you see a flashing blue light in your rear view mirror. The traffic officer pulls your over and asks to see your driver’s license. If he is honest, what is he probably going to write up? A ticket! There are consequences to breaking the laws of the land! By the same token, God has placed moral “traffic lights” in the universe for our safety and protection. And there are consequences to breaking God’s laws! Not just a traffic fine, but Rom 6:23 says, “The wages of sin is death!” We are therefore all deserving of death because Rom 3:23 says, “ALL have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” So all of us are sitting on
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death row! That’s not a pretty picture! But God loved us so much (John 3:16) that He devised a plan...
2. The LAMB Illustration
In Old Testament times if you sinned (hit a friend, stole something), you would have to bring a little woolly lamb to the tabernacle. Inside the courtyard, you would kneel over the lamb and place your hands upon its head. Then looking to heaven you would confess your sins to God. Symbolically a DIVINE EXCHANGE took place. Your guilt was deposited on the head of that woolly Lamb, and in exchange its innocence was transferred to you. Then you would take a knife and slit the lamb’s throat and watch it convulse in its own blood until its limbs grew still. That lamb died not because it was guilty, but because it bore YOUR guilt. In return, you would walk back to your tent a free man/woman, not because you were innocent, but because you bore the lamb’s innocence. That’s exactly what Jesus did for us on Calvary! He is the real “Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world!” (John 1:29) Two thousand years ago Jesus took our sins on His own body and died in our place (1 Pet 2:24). In exchange He gave us His perfect righteousness so that in God’s eyes, we appear just as if we never sinned! This is good news! However we must do something with this objective fact...
3. The LIFELINE Illustration
Let’s say you are on board a boeing airplane that goes down in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean. You are the only survivor. As you hang on for dear life to the tail fin, you notice dorsal fins cutting circles around you. You know it’s over! There’s no hope for survival. But miracle of miracles, a distress call goes out and within minutes a helicopter hovers overhead. Through the open hatch door comes a life line right down to your struggling form in the water! At this moment would you yell out, “No thanks, I think I can make it on my own! If I just swim a little harder, or kick a little faster, then I can make it to shore!” No way! What are you going to do? GRAB ON TO THE LIFE LINE! It’s not enough to merely know about Jesus’ death. We must grab on and make it our very own! 1 John 5:11-‐13 says that if we have Jesus we have life. Kicking and swimming (good works) will not save us. Only His death in our behalf will. How do we then grab on? By accepting Jesus’ death by faith (Eph 2:8) and by opening the door of our hearts for Him to enter and live in us (Rev 3:20).
4. Have you come to the place in your experience where you’ve grabbed hold of the lifeline?
Would you like to do that right now?
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5. Here is a simple prayer of surrender that a person could repeat after you, represented by the acronym FAITH:
• Forgive me. “Jesus I ask you to Forgive me of my sins.”
• Accept my confession. “Please accept my confession that I am a sinner worthy of death.”
• I give my life. “I now give my life completely to you.”
• Thank you. “Thank you for the free gift of salvation that is now mine by faith in Jesus’ death and life.”
• Help me to walk in your ways. “Now, Help me to walk in all Your ways by Your grace and power.
6. Assure the person that he or she, based on the authority of the Word of God, can ‘know’ that they have eternal life (1 John 5:13; John 6:47)
7. Welcome them to the family of God! (John 1:12; 6:37)
8. Share ways that the person can grow in Christ:
• Go to God in prayer daily (1 Thess 5:17; John 15:7)
• Read God’s Word daily (Acts 17:11) (can start with Gospel of John)
• Obey God moment by moment (John 14:21)
• Witness for Christ by your life and words (Matt 4:19; John 15:8)
• Trust God for every detail of your life (1 Pet 5:7)
• Holy Spirit – allow Him to control and empower your daily life and witness (Gal 5:16, 17; Acts 1:8)
9. Set up Bible studies with person!
Sources Used
• Gibbs, Gary. Winsome Witnessing. Keene: Seminars Unlimited, 2004 • Hartman, David. Winning Ways to Witness. Resource DVD.
Prepared by Shandrell Penniken