131117 eng i wish i knew series (part 7 - successful parenting) by teresa kang
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Transcript of 131117 eng i wish i knew series (part 7 - successful parenting) by teresa kang
SUCCESSFUL PARENTING
Know How to: Successful Parenting• God - Made Man
– Institute Marriage– Institute Family
Know How to: Successful Parenting• God - Relational
– Enoch, Noah - walked with God–Children - inheritance from HimPsalms 127:3 (NKJV)Behold, children are a heritage from
the Lord,The fruit of the womb is a reward.
God wants us to relate to Him asFATHER
In Heaven
• Jesus teaching–PrayerMatt 6:9 (NKJV)In this manner, therefore, pray:Our Father in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
• Abba FatherRomans 8:15 (NKJV)15 For you did not receive the spirit of
bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father.”
• Parenting is God's idea–Model after God in His parenting–Bible–Books draw from the principle of God– Testimony from man and woman of faith
Know how to Successful Parenting
Building Relationship
• Relationship–Connect, associate–ENJOY
• Relationship with our children–Presence - Love, value, secure -> Gain
influence–Absence - Chaos, confusion,
depression -> Vulnerability
How to build relationships1. Security– Secure Parents– Loving and Committed Marriage– Clear Boundary
How to build relationships2. Celebrate “He/She”– Understand– Love languages– Personality traits– Birth order– Season of life
How to build relationships3. One to One– Susana Wesley– James Dobson– Alice Tok
• Kill Colossians 3:21 (Amplified Bible)21 Fathers, do not provoke or irritate or fret
your children [do not be hard on them or harass them], lest they become discouraged and sullen and morose and feel inferior and frustrated. [Do not break their spirit.]
1. Expectation– Unrealistic– Inconsiderate
2. Favoritism– Siblings rivalry– Rejections– Ego-centric
3. Manipulation– Undermine– Oppressive
Psalm 127:1 (NKJV)Unless the Lord builds the house,
They labor in vain who build it;Unless the Lord guards the city,The watchman stays awake in vain.
Deuteronomy 28:13 (NKJV)13 And the Lord will make you the head and not
the tail; you shall be above only, and not be beneath, if you heed the commandments of the Lord your God, which I command you today, and are careful to observe them.
Daniel 1:17 (NKJV)17 As for these four young men, God gave them
knowledge and skill in all literature and wisdom; and Daniel had understanding in all visions and dreams.
SUCCESSFUL PARENTING