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Introduction
Almost 45% of time we spend in listening.An essential management and leadership skill.A process of receiving, interpreting and reacting to a
message.Difference between listening & hearing
Types of ListeningAppreciative listening
Empathetic listening
Comprehensive listening
Critical listening
Traits of a Good ListenerBeing non-evaluativeParaphrasingReflecting implicationsReflecting hidden feelingsInviting further contributionsResponding non-verbally
Active Versus Passive listeningShow keennessExpressionsAlertnessQuestionsNot neglecting physical aspectsValid reason for criticism
ImplicationsGood listening helps you to take better decisions and
make better policies in organization.On the contrary lack of proper listening can lead to
embarrassing situations because of a gap in coordination and understanding.
Tips for Effective Listening DO’s
Be mentally prepared to listen Evaluate the speech not the speaker Be unbiased to the speaker by
depersonalizing your feelings Fight distractions by closing off
sound sources Be open minded Ask questions to clarify and not to
overshadow intelligence Paraphrase from time to time Send appropriate non-verbal signals
time to time
Don’ts
Not to pay undue emphasis on vocabulary as you can use the context to understand the meaning
Not to pay too much attention to the accessories and clothing of the speaker
Not to prepare your responses while the speaker is speaking
Avoid preconceptions and prejudices
Not to get distracted by outside influences
Not to interrupt too often Not to show boredom
ConclusionYou do not listen with just your ears. You listen with
your eyes and with your sense of touch. You listen with your mind, your heart, your imagination. (Egan Gerard)
A good conversationalist is popular, a good listener even more so. Talk only if you have something to say.