Warm Fuzzies and Cold Prickles

Parable by Claude Steiner

Stroke Economy (Eric Berne, Transactional Analysis)

Five InjunctionsDon’t give strokes you want to give.

Don’t accept strokes you want to get.

Don’t ask for strokes you need.

Don’t reject strokes you dislike

Don’t give yourself strokes

Two Kind of Strokes

PositiveNegative

Stroke Profile

Exercise 1

PairDraw Your Stroke ProfileTALK!

Exercise 2

PairAsk: Write down 5 ‘Positive Strokes’ you want for yourselfGive: Write down 5 ‘Positive Strokes’ for your partnerTALK!