Spiritual &

Emotional Self

Reliance - a seminar for all

ward and stake leaders

How prepared am I to

think or act

differently as a result of

today’s seminar?

“The final healing comes through faith

in Jesus Christ and His teachings, with

a broken heart and a contrite spirit

and obedience to His commandments.”

“No matter what the source of difficulty

and no matter how you begin to obtain

relief - through a qualified professional

therapist, doctor, priesthood leader,

friend, concerned parent, or loved one -

no matter how you begin, those solutions

will never provide a complete answer.”

....a way of thinking that

determines how we interpret

and respond to situations

“The significant

problems we face

cannot be solved

at the same level

of thinking we

were at when we

created them.”

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The Drama Triangle

Persecutor Rescuer

Victim

(I’m OK,

you’re not OK)

(I’m OK,

you’re not OK)

(I’m not OK,

you’re OK)

The Drama

Triangle

Challenger (Assertive)

Ally (Caring)

Authentic (Vulnerable)

(I’m OK,

you’re OK)

(I’m OK,

you’re OK)

(I’m OK,

you’re OK)

The

Empowerment

Dynamic

(TED)

Challenger Coach

Creator

(I’m OK,

you’re OK)

(I’m OK,

you’re OK)

(I’m OK,

you’re OK)

TED

The Power

of Empathic

Listening

“A person’s inability to communicate is often

a result of their failure to listen effectively,

and with understanding to another person.”

Carl Rogers

Empathic

Listening is

reflecting what

a person feels

and says in

your own words. It is not listening to advise, counsel, reply, refute, solve, fix,

change, judge, agree, disagree, question, analyze, or figure out.

When people who are not used

to speaking are heard by people

who are not used to listening,

then real change occurs!

To learn &

not to do is

really not

to learn.

To know &

not to do

is really not

to know.

How prepared

am I now to

think or act

differently as a result of

this session?