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People Taking Responsibility for
Advocacy in their own Lives
Self-Advocates Becoming EmpoweredApril 10, 2012Facilitated by Max Barrows
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Presenters
Chaqueta
StuckeySouth Carolina
Bryon
MurrayUtah
Ryan
DuncanwoodCalifornia
Eric Treat
Arkansas
Anne Fracht
Massachusetts
Clint Perrin
New York
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Hmmm.who is the boss in your life? It isamazing how many self-advocates lead the
way by speaking up to legislators andserving on boards. But when you take acloser look, you may be surprised at whatyou see. When it comes to your life, areyou really in charge? Many peer leaders doan excellent job speaking up for others butare reluctant to ask for support to make
changes in their own lives. Thispresentation will include stories from peerleaders who have found ways to deal withthis issue.
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1. Could you share a time in your life where youwere hesitant to speak up for yourself?
Individual Education Plan (IEP)meetings in high school.
Asking for an accommodation on
the job from the Boss. When I got services, I felt
overpowered by the agencies.
I was scared about my support staff;I didnt know who I was.
When people look at me with my
disability, they think I dont know
anything.
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2. Tell me about a time you feltreally frustrated, or
uncomfortable while speakingup for yourself.
Asking my parents for more freedom riding my bike
into town by myself. Speaking in meetings where there are lots of
professionals present.
When I worked in law enforcement, it was hard to be
taken seriously by the other cops, because of my
disability.
When I ran for the SABE Board, the state DD director
didnt believe it when I got home; that was frustrating.
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3. Why is it easier sometimes to just continue tolet other people make decisions for you?
Because it takes more energy to disagree.
I hate having conflicts with people in
general. I fear that what I say will come back
negatively
Its easier to not go through the hassle
People argue with you because they thinkthey know best
Because you dont need to think about it,
you dont have to take the time or effort.
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4. Who has made decisions for you that couldotherwise have been made for yourself?
Parents
Teachers
Work supervisors Disability Professionals
Self-Advocacy group Advisors
Other family members
Support workers
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5. What about team meetings where you have aplace at the table. What makes it hard to ask
for what you want in these meetings?
Sometimes it is hard to know exactly
what you want.
Feeling uncomfortable about howpeople may react to what you ask for.
The process of asking for things for
myself; its just hard.
The agencies felt like they had controlover you; I didnt feel like they
listened to me. They had the power
and said: This is the plan, go by it.
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6. Where is the pressure coming from when its hard to speak upfor yourself? Are you worried about how other people may seeyou, or are you worried about how you see yourself? Or both?
When meeting with professionals, I worry about how
what I say may be heard. (I want to sound like I
belong there).
From inside the group, your peers: you are afraid of
what might happen if you speak out. I worry about both, how others see me, and how I
see myself (low self esteem).
When I plan a night out with friends, it is sometimes
challenging to speak up for what I want, because Ifeel stuck between pleasing my friends and myself.
When I work with legislators, they think I dont know
what I am talking about.
I am worried more about how I say things and how
people hear it.
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7. How have you overcome those barriers? So, how do you moveout of your comfort zone (the place that is stress free andfeels comfortable) and into your courage zone (the place
where change and growth can happen, the place where you aretaking risks)?
I listen to my body to cue me toward a
direction, when I am not sure.
Talking to other people, such as peers
mentors, and sometimes parents.
Accepting who I am and what my disabilities
are; learning more about TBI.
Going to leadership trainings.
I educate myself by reading and studying alot about the issues, and about the people
Im going to talk with.
Pushing through; I tell myself that I need to
do it.
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8. How do you deal with fear of rejection or criticism ifyou speak up for yourself?
Try not to get stuck in your head by just
thinking in circles.
Try not to view criticism as only negative; try
to see why you might be getting thatfeedback.
I try to tell myself that I am not responsible
for other peoples response to me.
I get away to think about it; try to regroup. I try to push myself and face it; that if I dont
do it, it wont get done.
Having the right supports really helps.
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