Relationships & the Web

How to behave when everything is online

Katie Charland@katiecharland

Raising Arizona Kids magazine

Phoenix Comicon Liberal de-friender and

un-follower

But I’ve always been social…

Now… Scalable Limited barriers Instantaneous Express individuality

Letters - Texting - ???

Has it really changed? Letters and texting still limited to just words MMS, video and apps Clipping to Tweeting What’s next?

Tonight on the Real World…

Living life in a confession booth

Forced ownership Changing level of trust

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Friending

I wasn’t invited to your party?

Different groups are now gathering in one place Nature of making friends changing Friendships form faster All talk, ALL THE TIME

Will you be my friend?

Feel out the room Merge groups Save conversations for offline Following & Friending What do you do with your Facebook?

Twitter?

Dating

You found out over Facebook?

Harder to date/be in relationship now

Context Trust Lack of privacy Different personas

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I’m going to be alone forever

Not so… View all profiles Show up at the same groups Keep arguments private & offline Make sure you what you mean is what you

say

Working

Why Facebook is so going to get you fired…

Keep work updates general

Problems offline Honesty Be yourself

Takeaways

Move relationships offline Set expectations Honesty

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