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ON BUILDING RESILIENCEDennis Hoiberg
Lessons Learnt Consulting
The Art and Science of Resilience
Dennis Hoiberg | Lessons Learnt Consulting
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Three Great Lies
•Work harder not smarter•Do more with less•Be RESILIENT
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My Interest
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What Resilience Does NOT Mean!!
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The Answer is Resilience
Your ability to bounce forward
and thrivethrough change and challenge
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Resilience is about being whole
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Key Messages
• You have to learn to look after YOURSELF • You need to GET OVER yourself • You need to have a GOOD LOOK at
yourself
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Key Messages• You have to learn to look after YOURSELF
• You need to GET OVER yourself • You need to have a LOOK at yourself
• You must be really clear about and honour your WHY
• Resilience is about ACTION
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More than thinking “Happy Thoughts”
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Key Messages
• It’s about your habits – the most important is SLEEP
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Key Questions
How are you sleeping?
If disturbed (for how long)?
How do you feel about your
• Self?
• Circumstances?
• Future?
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If your partner is the reason you are awake
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Key Messages
• Its about your habits – the most important is SLEEP
• It’s how you THINK
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“Purposeful” Optimism versus “Positive” Thinking
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Dealing with the “Shoulds”…
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Key Messages
• Its about your habits – the most important is SLEEP
• It’s how you THINK • It’s how you PLAN
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The Resilience “Moment”
STIMULUS RESPONSE
PROBLEM SOLVING
BEHAVIOUR
• FLIGHT • FIGHT• FREEZE
The resilience question…
“What is my most efficient
response to this situation?”
Underdeveloped Resilience
• Pause
• Breathe
• Reframe
• Listen
• Plan
• Do
Developed Resilience
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Key Messages
• Its about your habits – the most important is SLEEP
• It’s how you THINK • It’s how you PLAN• It’s how you DO
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On Doing ACTION
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Key Messages
• You have to learn to look after YOURSELF • You need to GET OVER yourself • You need to have a LOOK at yourself • You must be really clear about and honour your
WHY• It’s about ACTION • It’s about your habits – the most important is SLEEP • It’s how you THINK • It’s how you PLAN• It’s how you DO• It’s how you live your LIFE
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For further informationDennis J. Hoiberg
+61 418 384 619Dennis.hoiberg@lessonslearntconsulting.com
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