Post on 14-Jan-2022
MODULE
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Workbook
P R O G R A M O F F E R E D B Y :
I N S T R U C T O R : D R . K E V I N E L K O
F.O.R.M.
TRANSFERENCE DEFINEDPOS I T I VE TRANSFERENCE
M O D U L E O N E | F . O . R . M . | P A G E 1
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LIKE THEM FIRST. DECIDE LATER. - RONALD REAGAN
In order to transfer positively to your clients , what will you choose to adopt?
(i .e . , decide you like them ; listen to understand , commit to standing dates)
Identify TWO moments when you were quick to provide a solution instead of listening?
Going forward , which of Dr . Elko 's recommended practices will you adopt in order to
listen to understand? (take notes ; quiet the mind ; don 't judge ; like them first)
SELF CRITICAL CONVERSATIONCOMMAND OF YOU
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STEP #1: WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR 'SHOULDS '?
( 'client should know this already ' 'the family should just go with my recommendations ' )
THERE'S NO UPSET, ONLY ATTACHMENT TO 'SHOULD'. - DR. ELKO
STEP #3: IDENTIFY WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FROM YOUR CLIENT CONNECTION :
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STEP #2: HOW WILL YOU TALK BACK TO THE ABOVE 'SHOULDS '?
( 'I 'm going to let go of the need to be right . ' ; 'I 'm choosing to understand . ' )
CR I T I CAL QUEST IONSH IGH GA IN I N TERACT ION
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F. = FAMILY: (How important is your family to you?; Tell me about your children . )
'THROUGH F.O.R.M., YOU'RE LOOKING FOR HIGH GAIN CONNECTION.'- DR. ELKO
O. = ORGANIZATION: (Tell me about the project(s) in your company . What is yourparticipation in your community?)
R. = RECREATION: (What do you do for fun? Do you play golf? Where?)
M. = MISSION: (Tell me the difference you want to make . What missions are importantto you?)
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INSTRUCTIONS: Identify high gain questions for uncovering similarities and connecting withyour client.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION
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