Everything in Life comes in duality,

whether it is days and nights,

Summers and Winters,

Mind and Matter

Or it is the Pleasure and Pain

Success and Failures

Experienced by Man.

It is so because both the things are incomplete without each other.

If there will not be failures

Success will also cease to exist

Both are two sides of same coin.

The irony is that…

We as humans inspite of knowing this fact from deep inside of our hearts

Seek and pursue for one side of coin only.

We forget that both the pleasure and pain are mere a play of Divine Mother

To make us learn

The lessons of life!!

Life teaches us lessons and give us tips

to establish equanimity of mind in all situations.

If Failures are not accepted and are not taken as a precious gift of life to give us an opportunity to learn.

Successes in any case cannot be digested and no learnings can be derived out of it.

We all know that on one hand success gives as pleasure along with confidence

And on the other hand failures give us pain along with opportunity to interospect.

Thus proved to be a better teacher of life.

If Life is taken as an Ocean sending us tides of Sukh and Dukh at different intervals!!

Then the nature of these tides may not be in our hand

But what is in our hand is our reaction towards these tides.

We may not be able to stop the tides of Dukh while allowing the tides of Sukha only

But we can surely control our mind

And refrain it from being overpowered by varying emotional stimuli

Given by the Ocean of Life in the form of these tides.

We always have a choice

To be happy

Always!!!

Rather than getting affected

And allow mood swings

By the ups and downs of the Life.

There is a difference in experiencing the momentarily pleasures

And Eternal Bliss.

If we are experiencing this world through our five senses

We will surely have to experience the

Pleasures and Pains

Success and Failures.

We can still be happy by choosing to be happy at all times,

in all conditions.

Manifesting excellence and to be happy are the two basic Swadarma (nature) of our souls

It totally depends on us either to go against our soul

Or to align our actions to maintain the basic nature of our soul

And performing well even at tough times

Trying to excel in all the tests of LIFE.