Handbook to surviveADULTHOOD

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You, getting chewed up.

The monster of adulthood

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WAIT.WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE AN ADULT?

Yesterday I wasstill a kid.

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It is like finding yourself in the driver’s seat while you remember sitting in the back one.When did that happened?!

What about mydriving lessons?

Being an adult:

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Once you get in the front seatthe protective bubble you have been living in...

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…gets popped.

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Hey, it’s kind of cold here.Do you have a jacket?

Protective bubble residue.

Guys, he is out of the bubble!Come over and introduce yourselves.

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These are my friends:THE PROBLEMS ANDSELF DOUBTS GANGYou are not good enough

Stop day-dreaming, this is real life

That new project will put you to ruin

All of your friends are better off than you

Your parents must be really disappointed

That’s a lousy job you are doing as a parent

Husband? You won’t even find a good mechanic

Happiness? Not today pal, maybe next year.

You should have never taken that decision

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LIFE IS DIFFICULT

Yes, indeed. But cheer up pal!

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Credits to M. Scott Peck who saysthis in his book “The Road Less Travelled”

LIFE IS DIFFICULT.But once you accept it, it ceases to be.

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Now this fact does not matter anymore.

OK, I accept that life is difficult.Now what?

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Stop complaining about them,and embrace them.

Life will always be full of problems.

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Okay embraced. So how do I solve them?

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Enhancing your

DISCIPLINE!

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Sounds very easy to say but how...?

Psst, here are 4 tools tohelp you out.

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TOOL #1: DELAYING GRATIFICATIONChoosing to face problems now so as to enjoymore pleasure later

Ok, if you don’t eat this marshmallowyou can have 2 when I come back.

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1 minute later...

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TOOL #2: ASSUMING RESPONSIBILITYOwning and solving the problems that affect you.Even if you did not cause them.

Hey, you might wanna considerhelping out here...

No thanks, I’m fine here.Sorry, can’t see how that affects me.

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TOOL #3: DEDICATION TO REALITYFacing all of the problems instead of ignoringor hiding from them.

Hey, they called from your work.They said you are fired.What are you talking about?

I just got promoted, see!

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TOOL #4: BALANCINGDisciplining discipline itself. Don’t get burnt out.

Hey Tarzan, your friends are starting toforget your face. You might want totake a break and meet them for drinks.I need another espresso.

I’ve been working for 42 hours straight, I cannot stop now.

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THIS IS IT.NOW YOU ARE READY TO DEAL WITH THE MONSTER OF ADULTHOOD.

WE CAN ASSURE YOU IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

GIVE IT A TRY.

Could you stop calling me a monster?I am not so terrible.

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This is it?4 tools to handle all of my problems in adulthood?

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Hey, you are running out of money, and your boss says you are not getting that promotion you expected. And Linda, your now ex-girlfriend left you this note. She is running away with your friend Charles.Ah, also your fridge stopped working during the night so your food went bad.

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Okay, I will give it a try.

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Hope you are ready Tiger, it’s time to get punched in the face.

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