Post on 12-Jan-2016
Dealing with your Child 24/7: Homeschoolers Guide to Conscious
Discipline
With Renee Kendleypeacefulparentingpath.com
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Online Conference for Waldorf-inspired Homeschoolers
3 Type of Parenting Practices
*Dominant (violent & non-violent): parents have the power
*Permissive: child has power
*Authentic Leadership: everyone is empowered
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Online Conference for Waldorf-inspired Homeschoolers
Dominant
1) Violent: physical or verbal abuseenvironment: tense, rigid
children learn: coercive, competitivenesschildren feel: powerless & low self-esteem
2) Non-Violent: verbal abuse, time-outs, consequences
children learn: conformity, deviousnesschildren feel: angry, resentful
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Online Conference for Waldorf-inspired Homeschoolers
Permissive
Parents plead, bribe, nagenvironment:chaotic,inconsistent
parents feel powerless& then snap back into dominance
children learn: manipulation, selfish, entitled
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Authentic Leadership
*parents exercise self-control and teach
*unconditional love
*fulfilling needs*listening to feelings
*natural consequences*problem solving & family meetings
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Authentic Leadership*Children learn respect, self-control, responsibility
*children have a voice, they feel heard
*emotionally resilient
*parents set limits, boundaries
*natural consequences
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Which one of these was used by your parents?
Which one is used by your co-parent?
Which one do you use?
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Authentic Leadership fits Waldorf
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Authentic Leaders feel confident and capable
*parents trust their ability and doing what is right in the moment
*willing to learn more
*modeling
*setting limits peacefully*self-discipline
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4 obstacles that could be a challenge for authentic leaders
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4 obstacles that could be a challenge for authentic leaders
Aversion to guilt and being the leader
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4 obstacles that could be a challenge for authentic leaders
Aversion to guilt and being the leader
When parent has a dependency issue
Online Conference for Waldorf-inspired Homeschoolers
4 obstacles that could be a challenge for authentic leaders
Aversion to guilt and being the leader
When parent has a dependency issue
Constantly seeking advice from others
Online Conference for Waldorf-inspired Homeschoolers
4 obstacles that could be a challenge for authentic leaders
Aversion to guilt and being the leader
When parent has a dependency issue
Constantly seeking advice from others
Difficulty with isolation of parenting
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Heart Connection
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What stops you from being an authentic leader?
Free gift: Bringing Yourself Back from Center: A Guided Journey.Questions to guide parents to find emotional triggers & hot buttons
http://eepurl.com/TQcIL
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No scripts for parenting
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renee@peacefulparentingpath.com
Renee has cleared room in her calendar for 20 Get Acquainted Calls for those listeners who are committed to the Authentic Leadership paradigm, but know that they need some extra support in getting
there.
You can spend some time on the phone getting to know each other better. You will tell Renee about your unique family situation, and she will tell you about the different ways that she works with families. If you agree that it’s a good fit, then great! If not, Renee can point you in the
right direction!
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