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17 SUPER MOM TRICKS WITHOUT SHEDDING A SWEAT @LAVANYANAGARAJA | @RAJESHSOUND
APPRECIATE LAVISHLY FOR EACH GOOD BEHAVIOUR, TELL HER HOW YOU APPRECIATE IT. TELL HER YOU
ARE PROUD OF HER ACT
PICK YOUR BATTLES DON’T KNIT PICK
BUILD CONFIDENCE LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS
HOLD HIM WHEN HE FALLS.
TRY AND FAIL, NOT FAIL TO TRY
CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR RESPONSE.
YOU CAN NOT CONTROL HER.
FAMILY AND FRIENDS SPEND TIME WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY; HE
MUST KNOW THAT WORLD IS BEAUTIFUL.
PRACTICE GRATITUDE TELL HER OFTEN ON HOW GRATEFUL YOU
ARE AND TO WHOM. TELL HER HOW LUCKY YOU ARE, AS FAMILY
FEEL GUILT, NOT SHAME FOR ANY WRONG, LET HIM FEEL A SENSE
OF GUILT, NOT SHAME
ASK FOR HELP MORE PEOPLE ARE KEEN TO HELP THAN
YOU THINK - THAT NEIGHBOR, MOTHER-
IN-LAW, OR FRIEND; JUST ASK
UNDERSTAND YOUR LIMITS YOU ARE HUMAN, NOT GOD. KNOW
WHAT CAN AND WHAT YOU CANNOT
LET HIM MAKE MISTAKES MAKE OPPORTUNITIES TO ERR. HE WILL THUS
SELF-LEARN.
YOU CAN LIMIT DAMAGE BY CONTROLLING VARIABLES, BUT DON’T OVERDO IT
THINK AND TALK POSITIVE BE FIRM. TALK WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN,
NOT ON WHAT SHE SHOULD NOT DO
GIVE RESPONSIBILITIES TRUST HIM WITH RESPONSIBILITIES EARLY.
START SMALL, INCREASE GRADUALLY.
HE WILL SURPRISE YOU EACH TIME
RUN, PLAY, JOG RUN. PLAY SQUASH. HIT THE GYM.
EXERCISE. TAKE HER ALONG SOMETIMES.
GRAB THAT STROLLER. JUST GO.
SLEEP AND EAT WELL DEPRIVATION AND STARVATION ARE BIG NO-NO. INVENT THOSE EXTRA HOURS WITH A NAP
OR LUNCH WITH HIM
SAY SORRY, LOUD IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE, APOLOGISE TO HER (OR ANYONE), LOUD AND CLEAR.
SHE WILL FOLLOW YOUR FOOTSEPS
TIME OUT YOURSELF YOU ARE NOT A MACHINE. GIVE TIME
FOR YOURSELF. YOUR WORLD WILL NOT CRUMBLE.IN THOSE FEW MINUTES
WALK OUT, WALK ABOUT WHEN STRESSED, LIKE HOW WE ALL ARE, AT TIMES, TAKE A WALK, GET UNDER THE
RAIN, TAKE A STROLL, GO SWIM
17 SUPER MOM TRICKS WITHOUT SHEDDING A SWEAT @LAVANYANAGARAJA | @RAJESHSOUND