Post on 19-Jul-2015
Personal Argumentation
It is OK to Lose
Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Nonassertive
Passive, with limited self confidence agrees to what others want.
No comfortable solution
Lose/Win Situation
Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Aggressive
Hostile, that will focus only on this person getting what they want regardless of others feelings
Short term solution
Win/Lose Situation
Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Cooperative, finding solutions that work for all involved
Long term solution
Win/Win Situation
Assertive
Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Aggressive Nonassertive
Lose/Win
Assertive
Win/WinWin/Lose
Indirect Aggression Whiners
What do you think of when you hear the word…argument?
Defining Argumentation
Types of Conflicts
Simple
Pseudo
Ego
Subject or Topic oriented
Communication breakdown
Personality differences
Constructive arguing is the key to a successful relationship
Defining Argumentation
Common Traps
Unresolved Issues
Failure to stick to issues
Relationship Argumentation
Garbage Bagging
Winning at all costs
Why Can’t We Lose?
Arguing tied to our self esteem
Relationship Argumentation
Why Can’t We Lose?
Relationship Argumentation
It is ok to lose an argument
That is how we grow
An argument is a positive communication activity that seeks to resolve a disagreement
Defining Argumentation
Write about positive aspects of arguing. That
is arguing is one of the key reasons for a su
ccessful relationship
There are reasons why our arguments end negatively
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